One Advice
A FarewellTo my dearest,
Everything you did during your life was so tender, filled with joy and passion, filled pureness that the no one will ever be able to replicate.
You were to pure to be real, to kind for this selfish world.
everyone around you, I know, even not knowing them, that they loved you with all their hearts and everyone who were not around you but they still supported you with all their being ( I'm included ) loved you purely.
No one was ready for your departure but if you are finally at peace then, Kim Jonghyun, I support you.
May you rest in peace, shortie. hehe
It's hard to write when tears are falling. It's hard to express how is it possible to be missing you this much when I have never touched you, when i've never seen you in front of me.
We'll miss you and we'll always, always love you.
→ now, people.
Depression, suicide thoughts and such is not something that someone randomly came up and it's only in your imagination.
just because someone is smiling and trying it's best to make everyone around then feel good, doesn't mean, in any way, that they're happy with their life. In most cases, speaking out of experience, people who do that it's with the intention of, at least, making someone feel something that they can't.
If you see someone down, don't go to them with the cliché talk of " the more you think about it, the worse " or " you're overreacting " or even " you're like that because you want you. get out more and have fun ". stop it.
You're not helping. It never helps. If all we needed was to talk, the psychologists were booked 24/7. If all we needed was to talk, trust me, no one would fall into depression.
What you need to do is, if you are with person, make them follow you, take them somewhere. Drag them even, if you need.
All we need is to see and actually feel that we are wanted. That someone truthfully cares.
Words are easy, medicine is suicide.
Actions are harder since people don't have any type of will or patience to deal with people in a depressive state.
One advice : be the one who does something for someone, not the one who says something to someone.
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