I just read a story on Chun's blog...this story posted by him...And I really love the story.Fans wondered how come Chun posted the story..and I do understand it now...Somehow reading the story made someone{me included}the realities in love and life.Love and life is not always a roller coaster,it is not all fun and excitement,loving should be constant in everyday life,when the wind is calm,and the sun stood still,and when there is no reason to laugh out loud.

Reading Chun's blog reminded me,how I went back to my writing.I used to write when I was in high school and sort of abandoned it when I went to college and now I finally found it again,when I started reading Chun's blog.{Chun was my first fave in Fahrenheit,before I got caught in Jiro's frenzy}His words motivated me and sort of encouraged me to write back again.I maybe a Jiro fan the most, but Chun's word have motivated and influenced me in the most positive way.And reading his story I just know I have to post it and have other people read it and just like me,maybe this will lead to a positive impact in one's life.

I am sure if Chun knows his impact to people...{I think he knew it already}I am sure he will be happy.I may not gush and rant on Chun like I do with Jiro but my affection for him is real and true.

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That’s LIFE, and LOVE (a story posted by Chun)

My husband is S/W Engineer by profession, I love
him for his steady nature and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.

Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it.

I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings. My husband is my complete opposite; his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about LOVE.

One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

"Why? " he asked, shocked.

"I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world !" I answered.

He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling of
disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to even
express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him?

And finally he asked me: "What can I do to change your mind?"

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: "Here is the question.

Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we
both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death. Will you
do it for me?"

He said: " I will give you your answer tomorrow...." My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting that goes....

My dear, "I would not pick that flower for you, but....please allow me to explain the reasons further.....

This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.

"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you
cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that I can
help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you.

You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every
month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your
tummy.

You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be
infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes
and stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the
computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes. I have to save
my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails and
help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand
while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the
beautiful sand...

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is
someone who loves you more than I do... I could not pick that flower
yet, and die ... "

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting...

That's LIFE, and LOVE. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of
excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies
in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms;
even in very small and cheeky forms. It has never been a model. It
could be the dullest and most boring form ...

Flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the
relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... AND
THAT'S LIFE

People often goes for romantic gestures, surprises
and sweet words whispered into their ears. We fall in love and feel
loved because of these so called romantic moments.

But the truth is romantic moments cannot show how much a person loves you. They merely create the feeling of being loved.

1010@Yun Chuan 於 July 7, 2009, 2:16 pm 回應
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Yeah loving someone is more than the roses in his hands,the candlelight dinner with a background music,the expensive gifts,the diamond ring that he put in your finger,love is so much more.......

It is the phone call in the morning to wake up and remind you of your early appointment,the words of I Love You before you go to bed,the coffee that he made just for you in the morning,the car made ready for you to drive with full tank of gas,the joke that he makes when we are going crazy and all stressed out.Yes loving is so much more ....

And I guess I am so lucky that I am loved in a thousand of ways...And lucky is the girl who have Chun's love as well....