Sometimes I can't help but get mad at these people who only judge based on what they see. I may keep my words for myself because I'm really not good at speaking out my thoughts, I don't know how to say "no" "I don't like it" "I don't want" or "you hurt me". And the fact that I tend to keep things for myself usually ends up making the other party think that "l" am the one being at fault. I even sometimes feel guilty just because I was trying to keep some self-esteem and to learn how to love myself. Why is it so difficult for people to understand that the smallest thing they do (or don't) can make someone happy or can hurt him. Human relationships are so complicated tbh. We're not all the same, and what might seem correct for someone might be not even logical for someone else. For me it has always been: "never pretend to like someone when you don't, but don't make him feel that there's a problem with him ( the problem might be with you anyway), never try to hurt his feelings. Never take the care of someone for granted, he might give up on you one day. If you want to be taken care of, you also have to give some attention. Don't only take, you also have to give (and I'm not talking about material things here). And finally, respect those who are older than you no matter how old they are". I might be completely wrong, but this is how I see it. I don't even know what is the definition of "wrong" here. Sometimes I want to stop caring about everyone's opinion and everyone's feelings, someti