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Have you ever think about moving out of your country to continue your study? or even work? I have thinking about it a lot recently. I live in Indonesia and soon I'll graduate from high school. I'd really want to move out to Japan, or Korea, or heck Vancouver, Canada or somewhere else. The reason is not because I'm that crazy to just want to meet korean or others. I just feel like I don't belong here anymore. I don't feel welcome in my own country where I should've called home.

 


 

Honey, of course I have!

As an idol, I have the opportunity to move around to different places all the time which is part of the thrill of being in this industry. However, it is really sad that you feel that you really don’t belong but one thing is for sure: don’t take things for granted. You may find out how utterly integral your country actually is to your life because it’s impossible not to build some kind of attachment with a place you’ve been your entire life. Moving places, especially countries is a huge move that you should reconsider very, very carefully. However, if you’re just going for education, it’s a great experience and you’ll meet all kinds of new and friendly people. If it’s a life choice, then you may have to think a little more carefully. Don’t rush things, allow a little bit of time and then make your decision.

The best of luck! :)

- Love, Daehyun ♥

 

 

(Author ramblings: I can really relate to this because as a child, I was always more the adventurous, glamorous type. I wanted to go places, make it big and one city that catered to all these interests was my home city of Shanghai. I am an Australian citizen but the hustle and bustle of that enigmatic city drew me there and honestly, compared to city was a whole lot more fun. As I’ve matured and grown up a little, I really did find the value of my home country and even though I don’t think I’ll stay here my entire life, I value it and it’s a place that holds the bad and the good. Don’t let go of your country just yet, that’s my advice.)

 

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-RawrGurl-
#1
I went through my bookmarks & I found this. Oh, how I love the advices you both gave to me & the others. Thank you so much ^^ Sadly this is close but I still wish the best for both of you! Good luck in your life! C:
Parity
#2
I'm rereading the advice you gave me as well as the advice you gave other people. I wish you would open this again. ^^
seasidewaffle
#3
Thanks so much for your hard work <3
You've helped out so many of us and made us feel a lot better about themselves, even if we all started off as strangers! That's so much more than a lot of people can say they've done :) Remember that we're all here for you! Stay kickass ;D
HANHYERICE
#4
Chapter 40: i hope you feel better, charmallamaa! um, i'm sorry i'm quite awkward but you really helped me with your words and everything and stay happy, okay! we're all here for you! exoexo. <3
jinjinjin
#5
you guys are the best ;-;
i guess i need to take your tips. they're helpful. now i can stand up and be strong. thank you for taking your time on me. thank you very much. i know it feels bad, but if i learn, maybe they'll learn to notice us too. Thank you for everything, café de l'espoir!
seasidewaffle
#6
Chapter 36: Hi guys, was just wondering what the name of the procrastination book is? Sounds like it'll be a useful read, haha!
Sakura-Juliette
#7
Chapter 1: I placed an order~ ^^
jinjinjin
#8
Chapter 1: placed another order :3
jinjinjin
#9
you guys do really make people feel better ;-;
i'll take in every single word you said. thank you very much /bows 90 degrees/