Question 382
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Hi ^^ I'm here to ask for advice. So, a have this guy friend, we used to be quite close since two years ago ((talks everyday on a daily basis)), but after I REALISED that I like him more than a friend, things started to get awkward for me. We still talk occasionally, and sometimes he gets really sweet, cheers me up when I'm down, says sweet things, but sometimes he becomes really cold. I'm very scared if he finds out that I like him, because he will avoid the girls who like him as he doesn't want to lead them on. I think he is a really good friend, and I don't want to lose him, but I've liked him for a year. Should I just remain the way we are? I would appreciate if eunhaekyumin helps me! ^^
Donghae: Hello ELF!
Kyuhyun: This is quite a problem...*leaves*
Eunhyuk: Hey!
Kyuhyun: Sorry I got a StarCraft match.
Eunhae: -_-
Eunhyuk: Anyway, when Donghae and I were just friends we both were feeling like you're feeling right now. Our time together was awkward and we both liked each other as more than friends. It got to a point where one of needed to say something, so we both ended up confessing.
Donghae: Hyukkie means that you should probably confess your feelings to the boy. Even he doesn't feel the same it is better to let him know how you feel about him, so he is maybe more careful of the way he treats you.
Eunhyuk: Also even though he is a good friend, you said he sometimes acts cold? Maybe you should ask him why he acts this way. It might be that he already suspects you like him and maybe isn't trying to lead you on.
Donghae: In the end it's you decision what you want to do!
Kyuhyun: It's better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all.
Eunhyuk: Oh you came back?
Kyuhyun: Yes, I'm on a break.
Eunhyuk: Well we're done.
Kyuhyun: Okay. *leaves*
Eunhae: -_-
Eunhyuk: Good luck!
Donghae: Be strong!
Eunhae: We love you!!
by the way, author-nim you are a really amazing person for creating this advice column!
Why thank you but I'm not amazing. ^^;; I'm just an average person who likes to give advice to others--oh and loves Super Junior.
~Lizard
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