Question 356
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Haha Yesung I don't like ice cream that much.... uhhh Siwon! Maybe I should go there!!! XD thank you for answering :) now another question....
What do I do when there is a guy I like an he is dating a girl but then all of a sudden another guy comes in trying to cheer me up??? Should I accept his help??
Yesung: Yeah I guess not. *embarrassed*
Siwon: :D
Zhou Mi: So this other guy is trying to cheer you up after you found out the guy you like is dating a girl. This sounds a little...
Kyuhyun: Honestly the guy trying to cheer you up is probably trying to take advantage of the situation. If he's cheering you up as a friend it's fine, but if he expects something else like getting a chance to go out with you, you might want to say no.
Sungmin: No because you need to have time to get over the guy you liked and then decide honestly if you like this other guy like that. Because it could turn out that you only needed him to get over your crush and that isn't right.
Zhou Mi: Yeah approaching someone after they have broken with a boyfriend/girlfriend or trying to get over a crush isn't really right. It creates fake feelings.
Heechul: So basically, yes he can help if he's going to act like a friend and nothing more. But no, if he's trying to go for more.
Sungmin: And don't think you owe him anything when he pretends to be a friend and then tries to go out with you. Be firm and send him back to that "friendzone" because that guy has bad timing or just wants to take advantage of the situation.
Kyuhyun: Unless you're okay with it.
Sungmin: Yeah unless. It's your choice!
Zhou Mi: Hope we somehow helped.
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