Question 351

Suju Advice Column

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Halloooo~

This is my frist time ever asking for personal advice! My sister tends to get annoyed since I bottle everything up :3

So, on the subject of friends. I have this one friend I met recently-online (around 3-4 months ago?) She lives far away (2 hour bus journey from my house) and when ever I visit her, I have to make my own journey there. She's 18 in 2 months while I'm 17 in one month. She says she's bad at directions so I have to take her every. I'm fine with that so I take her around central and every to places which I've never been before, even though I'm horrible at directions myself. (Been branded as the female Zoro from one piece when it comes to directions.)
It's not that's she's bad but rather, she just doesn't want to do any work. She follows me around as then wen I get it wrong, she slaps me on the arm and shouts at me.
She tends to go out wit me but only if I pick her up and I end up wasting over £10 every time we go out just on travel.
Then, as a dongsaeng (she's also a kpop fan), she forces me to buy her food and kpop posters which are expensive here in London since there's like 3 stores that sell kpop related items.
I end up waking up at 7am to get ready, make my way to the bus stop for 8am and sit for until 10am. Then we go to central which is a 30 minute train ride and stay until 4pm. We get to her house around 4:30pm and she forces me to stay until 7pm. Then of course it back to the 2 hour kind bus ride back home and I get home at around 9pm. Once time I got home at 10pm and my father got really angry and shouted at me for ages!
I really don't want to make that 2 hour long bus drive whenever I want to meet her so how do I get her to make her own way to places where I can also get to easily?
She can be quite rude sometimes. She'll swear at me, call me names like ugly and fat. One time, she showed a picture of me to her crush without telling me as he called me cute. She got really jealous and shouted at me, posted a status about me.


Heechul:

Henry: Hyung? Are you okay?

Heechul: I'm sorry I'm just a little outraged...

Henry: Why?

Heechul: WHY? WHY??!!

Donghae: Henry what did you do! He's about to blown.

Henry: I-I-

Heechul: WHAT KIND OF FRIEND IS THAT! I DON'T CARE IF SHE'S OLDER!

Hangeng: Hee...

Heechul: I'm fine...I'm fine!

Kangin: What's with the loud keyboard smashing! I'm trying to nap!

Leeteuk: Kangin come back to bed--Oh...

Heechul: First of all...EW! Second of all, yes it's fun to play the dongsaeng-hyung thing when you're not in Korea but you guys live in another country where it doesn't really apply. She has no right to be making you pay for everything, making you go all the way to her place, make you do all the work. That's not how relationships or friendships work.

Kangin: Even though I can be bad at spending money on my dongsaengs I still manage to pick up the tab once in a while and make sure they get fed.

Ryeowook: And he watches K-dramas with me every Tuesday! :D

Heechul: Older or not, you deserve respect. Friends have to care and share and all that good stuff.

Henry: You are going to have to talk to your friend honestly. Let her know this isn't how friends should be. And if she doesn't listen I would reconsider calling her a friend.

Heechul: And whether she's actually worth that 2 hour drive.

Sungmin: Also don't let her call you ugly or fat. You are beautiful. And cute. Your crush seemed to think so too, right? ;)

Heechul: Stay beautful! Hope I helped.

Henry: Hey I helped too!

Sungmin: And me!

Kangin: And me!

Heechul: -_- yeah yeah...

Everyone: Good luck!


I forgot, I'm weird so I like weird couplings but my ultimate opt is Changkyu!
(Changmin from TVXQ and Kyuhyun)

Thank you!! :3


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Anime_Otome
#1
Chapter 402: Hi I'm in 8th grade and I need advice
I'm pretty much socially awkward except with people I know and an comfy with like my cousins. In school I'll be like that one loner in the corner My classmates don't like me even though I never did anything to them and it's pretty saddening next year I'm going to high school and I feel very depressed will I spend my whole high school year like this? Haha sorry SuJu that got depression fast XD anyways thanks and my Ultimate Biases are Yesung Ryeowook and Zhoumi I can't choose one >.< and my favorite OTP Yewook of course ;) PPLEASE LORD SHISUS BRING IN THE SPAM ^_^
RJ_kpop
#2
Chapter 99: First of all...I am not mental for writing this and second I really love this fic. so this is kinds long so sorry...

I really love you Cho Kyuhyun! you need to remember that many people in this world loves you because you're such a lovable human being and no one in this world will ever hate you! you deserve to be spoiled and loved! you will forever be a kid in my eyes! XD continue being evil and if you will ever think of plotting world domination I will totally support you and help you recruit members for your army!!! CHOKYU JJANG!
and KRY you are the best vocalists ever! thanKYU very much for existing in this world!!! luv u and all Suju members! (but I love Kyuhyun more) XD
and please Kyuhyun and KRY spam please!!!
p/s: luv u authornim for making this fic *I'm still not halfway through though* XD
FOREVER KYUHYUN BIASED! LOVE U CHOKYU!!!
seobiefairy
#3
Chapter 145: What if I got friends that is actually erm how do i say this? Hypocrite? Lets put numbers for this. At first, when 1 entred degree, she kinda get new friends and apart from us, the foundation friend. But the other in my group (2,3,4,5) is talking like how she is abandoning us and confront her saying that she changed hearts and dont want to befriend with us anymore. But now, 2 is just the same. She found other friends to share stories with and asks opinions rather than telling it to me too. Hm i feel sad.

Ps: Lee Donghae-ssi; my first ever bias, and still is my bias, please be healthy and happy okay? Stay handsome, love♡ and Super Junior, fighting!
Laurensmiles #4
Chapter 402: Happy 400 author-nim!!!

I have a bigger question than the one I had before.

What does it mean when a boy says, "You know, is it weird to say that I think I could see us dating?"

I'm really confused and I don't know what that means but j want to still be friends with this person. And I literally only met this person a few days ago so it's really awkward...

HanHae Spam and OTP YeWook and ZhouRy!!!!
사랑해요~~~
TaiShanNiangNiang #5
Chapter 402: Whoa, Happy 400!!! :)
mybabyhaehae #6
Chapter 402: Hello oppas =)
I love tou all so much hehe :-D
Mmm i has a studying problem
Im in my senior year and after two munths my final exams will get start , my problem is i cant study proberly "hard" like {i just oppen the book read some of it and then close it } and somtimes i lost foucus in class's idw why.
So i really nees soeme good advice oppas to help me return on stuyding :-)
Ps: i want leeteuk , Eunhae spam please
Thanx ♡
Laurensmiles #7
Chapter 401: Hi, I'm back and I took your advice. I broke up with and said that I would need some time to think, but now he won't leave me alone. He emails me, he skypes me and keeps trying to confront me and all about stuff. But right now I just want some alone time. Also the person I like everyone sees us as a couple. But he kinda sees me as his younger sister. What do I do? Also, thanks Heechul, I know I'm special now. I love writing and I hope to be a famous writer and singer.
Zhoury/HenMi Spam please!! And Henry spam!!!!
LoveSHINeeSuJu
#8
Chapter 401: hello oppas it's me again, thank you eunhae for the advice the previous time. remember that time where I told you about the boy that I really like but he's giving me mixed signals? so, I didn't manage to muster the courage to confess to him, but here's the thing. I have this really close friend of mine, let's name her Z. Z used to like guy A (the guy that I like) for a period of time, but she told me she moved on to guy B. Recently, Z told me that she doesn't like B anymore and that she has been boasting to me about her conversations with A even tho she knows that I like guy A. Z is really pretty and a much much better person than me, so I guess the probability of A liking Z would be higher. She has no wrong for talking to him at all, but I don't know why she always tell me how close A and her are. I don't want to break this friendship by confronting her, and am at a loss of what to do since I'm getting so affected by it. eunhae & kyu, can you give me advice on how not to be affected by it? :(
Sujufan123
#9
Chapter 401: *first I'm really sorry for my Eng i hope it isn't that bad*
Annyeonghaseyo!~
I have a problem, *that's why i'm here lol*
I have my friend, i know her for 8 years and i really like her. Now we are in new school, new class and we've got in it some y girls. They think they are the best just because they're trying to show everywhere their s. In fact, they are stupid *really, just watch them during lessons* They also drink alcohol *they are 13-14*. And they became friends with my friend. They were drinking together and as a friend I'm worried. We were also arguing a lot, because of them. Now i feel that we aren't friends anymore. My friend calls me only when she has a problem in homework, we don't see each other, she just doesn't treat me like a friend. When I tried to talk about it she sayed that it's normal and she just want to spend time with someone else. I feel really hurt I don't want her to be friends with those girls. What should I do? Leave her alone? Oppas help! :<
PS. WOOKIE OPPA SARANGHAE ♥ Sorry YeYe but recently I've been shipping KyuWook ♥ So can I have Ryeowook and Kyuwook spam? ^^
Laurensmiles #10
Chapter 399: 안녕 선배!!!

Guys I have a problem, so, my boyfriend and I got together rather spontaneously and i think he's developed, kind of, "SoulMate" feelings for me. I don't really know how cause I'm not really anything special. But I'm confused cause I think I like this other boy, Boy A. But I think that if I tell him that not only will I probably never be able to talk to him again if he rejects me but I'll lose a really really good friend. And I don't want to do that.

So I guess what I'm saying is, how do I figure out if I really love someone?
And how do I tell someone I have a crush on them. I was thinking love letter but that's really cliché so... Please help me!!!

I would appreciate Yesung and Hangeng spam. For the OTP, EunHae and Sibum please!!