Question 229
Suju Advice ColumnSpeaking of Eunhae! Eunhae's new MV was so good!! SM needs to make more MVs like this one!
GothicMermaid
Okay, because it's a Saturday night and I have nothing much to do... I'll submit a problem to you guys. Hope you don't mind too much. (#^.^#)
Alright, here goes... my fear of the male gender, particularly those older than me.
Now, before you guys start freaking out, I'm straight, and I like guys just fine. From a distance of at least 10' if I don't know them, 6' if I do. It's just that something... mildly unpleasant had taken course over several days of my 11-12 aged years, and I've been rendered fearful of contact with those of the male gender.
It didn't used to be quite so bad a few months ago, when this one particular boy (who was slightly younger than me) had established himself to be a perfect gentleman and would give me hugs all the time. Helped me see that guys weren't quite so bad after all... there were a few good ones out there.
But we lost contact with each other, and the paranoia's returned with a vengeance, to the point where I can't walk past my own father, whom I love dearly, in the hallway without plastering myself up on the walls and feeling antsy for a good 5 minutes after.
It's a different story with younger males, though. They don't pose as big a threat to me, so I'm a lot more comfortable with them. Which, as you can imagine, leads some people to misunderstandings. And I can't tell them the rationale behind my comfort levels.
I have a feeling that I should talk to a pro about this, but I can't afford to. So I go to the next best thing... you guys. Please, tell me what I have to do to get rid of this stupid, irrational sense of discomfort... I don't want to live my life in perpetual mistrust of males.
Kyuhyun: Us? You came to us? Look at these old bags of dust. They don't know anything!
Leeteuk: Who are you calling old!
Kyuhyun: I mean everyone is old but you hyung! Youth radiates from you!
Siwon: Yeah hyung you don't look a day over 20.
Leeteuk: Aww thank you.
Kyuhyun: >.> Siwon!
Siwon: What? *innocent voice*
Kyuhyun: Only I can up to hyung like that!
Kangin: Back up you two! if anyone is going to up it's me! Besides I'm the one who his---
Sungmin: Let's get back to the question now! Please!!
Donghae: You should probably go see a psychologist. Tell your mother if you can't tell your father.
Kibum: You talked about something mildly unpleasant happening when you were 11-12, that could be what caused it to happen.
Eunhyuk: Yeah it's best to get a psychologist so you can talk about it and slowly get help to overcome your fear.
Heechul: Take care of yourself!
Donghae: We wish you very good luck!
Whew, that was long and annoying. ^^;
And now for my biases...
KRY and Sungmin are my vocal biases,
Leeteuk and Heechul are my "looks" biases,
EunHae is my pairings bias.
And for my ultimate biases (a tie)
*drumroll*
Heechul and Kyuhyun.
Don't you two start fighting now~
Heechul: >.>
Kyuhyun: <.<
*start fighting*
Ryeowook: Look they fight like girls.
Donghae: We should go make popcorn. This could take a while.
Leeteuk: I'm flattered I'm your "look" bias.
Kangin: Who can blame them. Look at you.
Leeteuk: Oh stop!
Yesung: Why is everyone up to hyung today?
Ryeowook: Popcorn hyung?
Yesung: Oh thanks. *takes some*
Eunhyuk: I think I've had enough. Can't you both just be her bias?
Heechul & Kyuhyun: NO!!
*continue fighting*
Shinong: Let's just spam and get out of here.
Everyone: *agrees*
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