Question 163

Suju Advice Column

TrizaSJMK

Hi author-nim and suju~
Okay so anyway...Lately I feel like I've been getting tired of you guys but that was just me being random XD I love you guys too much to get bored with ^^v

Okay so anyway I have this...let's say childhood friend that I really like, I don't know if it's love, cause I'm too young for that do let's just say I have an innocent crush on him, but the dude and other people here thinks otherwise. I just said I has a little crush on him, cause c'mon I was like six back then!! so anyway when I turned eleven puberty hit him, and so did my problem happened. I was just minding my business, not giving a about the others and just play, when one of my friends told my childhood friend I have a crush on him, so he started avoiding me, not talking to me everything went awkward!! So I freaking cried myself everyday, cause I'm sad that my childhood friend won't be by my side until we graduate college and sh*tz , so after a year I was slowly getting use to it, I also started avoiding him but one day on our neighbors birthday, he talked to me randomly so anyway because of my panic for not talking to him for a year, I answered him rather harshly, but I didn't mean it to~ I panicked, so after that he tried to ask me again and of course same result, I harshly answered him. And now after five years of not talking to him, everytime I go out and play with my sister's friend--what? I'm a kid at heart okay? He also goes out and I always feel him look at me everytime I look elsewhere, but the thing is, when I don't look back at him and just ignore him, he'll sent me a glare or ended up sulking and going home and started playing sad songs, I was like 'what the ____ is wrong with him?' but I just ignored him. And now I always notice him looking at me with a glare, or just plain angry eyes.

So please help me~ I also want to end this stupid awkwardness that we had. Sorry for the cussing ^^V

I love you guys <3 and thx


Kangin: This is easy!

Ryeowook: Yeah!

Yesung: Touch his philtrum!

Everyone: No!

Hangeng: All you do is talk to him.

Heechul: Yup! break the silence with him. He's only mad because you were mad at him.

Kibum: Also the comment above. it's okay to be tired of something.

Leeteuk: Exactly. Sometimes too much of a good thing is bad.

Kyuhyun: Take some time away from kpop and go do other things.

Eunhyuk: Yeah we do other things besides sing and dance. We go fishing with Appa!

Kangin: ^^~

Sungmin: Or learn to cook with Wookie!

Ryeowook: :)

Yesung: Or go out to the movies!

Leeteuk: Or spend some quality time with Kangin! <3

Kangin: :D

Donghae: Don't pressure yourself to always have to be about kpop. We're not going anywhere and your love hopefully won't change.

Everyone: Good luck!

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Anime_Otome
#1
Chapter 402: Hi I'm in 8th grade and I need advice
I'm pretty much socially awkward except with people I know and an comfy with like my cousins. In school I'll be like that one loner in the corner My classmates don't like me even though I never did anything to them and it's pretty saddening next year I'm going to high school and I feel very depressed will I spend my whole high school year like this? Haha sorry SuJu that got depression fast XD anyways thanks and my Ultimate Biases are Yesung Ryeowook and Zhoumi I can't choose one >.< and my favorite OTP Yewook of course ;) PPLEASE LORD SHISUS BRING IN THE SPAM ^_^
RJ_kpop
#2
Chapter 99: First of all...I am not mental for writing this and second I really love this fic. so this is kinds long so sorry...

I really love you Cho Kyuhyun! you need to remember that many people in this world loves you because you're such a lovable human being and no one in this world will ever hate you! you deserve to be spoiled and loved! you will forever be a kid in my eyes! XD continue being evil and if you will ever think of plotting world domination I will totally support you and help you recruit members for your army!!! CHOKYU JJANG!
and KRY you are the best vocalists ever! thanKYU very much for existing in this world!!! luv u and all Suju members! (but I love Kyuhyun more) XD
and please Kyuhyun and KRY spam please!!!
p/s: luv u authornim for making this fic *I'm still not halfway through though* XD
FOREVER KYUHYUN BIASED! LOVE U CHOKYU!!!
seobiefairy
#3
Chapter 145: What if I got friends that is actually erm how do i say this? Hypocrite? Lets put numbers for this. At first, when 1 entred degree, she kinda get new friends and apart from us, the foundation friend. But the other in my group (2,3,4,5) is talking like how she is abandoning us and confront her saying that she changed hearts and dont want to befriend with us anymore. But now, 2 is just the same. She found other friends to share stories with and asks opinions rather than telling it to me too. Hm i feel sad.

Ps: Lee Donghae-ssi; my first ever bias, and still is my bias, please be healthy and happy okay? Stay handsome, love♡ and Super Junior, fighting!
Laurensmiles #4
Chapter 402: Happy 400 author-nim!!!

I have a bigger question than the one I had before.

What does it mean when a boy says, "You know, is it weird to say that I think I could see us dating?"

I'm really confused and I don't know what that means but j want to still be friends with this person. And I literally only met this person a few days ago so it's really awkward...

HanHae Spam and OTP YeWook and ZhouRy!!!!
사랑해요~~~
TaiShanNiangNiang #5
Chapter 402: Whoa, Happy 400!!! :)
mybabyhaehae #6
Chapter 402: Hello oppas =)
I love tou all so much hehe :-D
Mmm i has a studying problem
Im in my senior year and after two munths my final exams will get start , my problem is i cant study proberly "hard" like {i just oppen the book read some of it and then close it } and somtimes i lost foucus in class's idw why.
So i really nees soeme good advice oppas to help me return on stuyding :-)
Ps: i want leeteuk , Eunhae spam please
Thanx ♡
Laurensmiles #7
Chapter 401: Hi, I'm back and I took your advice. I broke up with and said that I would need some time to think, but now he won't leave me alone. He emails me, he skypes me and keeps trying to confront me and all about stuff. But right now I just want some alone time. Also the person I like everyone sees us as a couple. But he kinda sees me as his younger sister. What do I do? Also, thanks Heechul, I know I'm special now. I love writing and I hope to be a famous writer and singer.
Zhoury/HenMi Spam please!! And Henry spam!!!!
LoveSHINeeSuJu
#8
Chapter 401: hello oppas it's me again, thank you eunhae for the advice the previous time. remember that time where I told you about the boy that I really like but he's giving me mixed signals? so, I didn't manage to muster the courage to confess to him, but here's the thing. I have this really close friend of mine, let's name her Z. Z used to like guy A (the guy that I like) for a period of time, but she told me she moved on to guy B. Recently, Z told me that she doesn't like B anymore and that she has been boasting to me about her conversations with A even tho she knows that I like guy A. Z is really pretty and a much much better person than me, so I guess the probability of A liking Z would be higher. She has no wrong for talking to him at all, but I don't know why she always tell me how close A and her are. I don't want to break this friendship by confronting her, and am at a loss of what to do since I'm getting so affected by it. eunhae & kyu, can you give me advice on how not to be affected by it? :(
Sujufan123
#9
Chapter 401: *first I'm really sorry for my Eng i hope it isn't that bad*
Annyeonghaseyo!~
I have a problem, *that's why i'm here lol*
I have my friend, i know her for 8 years and i really like her. Now we are in new school, new class and we've got in it some y girls. They think they are the best just because they're trying to show everywhere their s. In fact, they are stupid *really, just watch them during lessons* They also drink alcohol *they are 13-14*. And they became friends with my friend. They were drinking together and as a friend I'm worried. We were also arguing a lot, because of them. Now i feel that we aren't friends anymore. My friend calls me only when she has a problem in homework, we don't see each other, she just doesn't treat me like a friend. When I tried to talk about it she sayed that it's normal and she just want to spend time with someone else. I feel really hurt I don't want her to be friends with those girls. What should I do? Leave her alone? Oppas help! :<
PS. WOOKIE OPPA SARANGHAE ♥ Sorry YeYe but recently I've been shipping KyuWook ♥ So can I have Ryeowook and Kyuwook spam? ^^
Laurensmiles #10
Chapter 399: 안녕 선배!!!

Guys I have a problem, so, my boyfriend and I got together rather spontaneously and i think he's developed, kind of, "SoulMate" feelings for me. I don't really know how cause I'm not really anything special. But I'm confused cause I think I like this other boy, Boy A. But I think that if I tell him that not only will I probably never be able to talk to him again if he rejects me but I'll lose a really really good friend. And I don't want to do that.

So I guess what I'm saying is, how do I figure out if I really love someone?
And how do I tell someone I have a crush on them. I was thinking love letter but that's really cliché so... Please help me!!!

I would appreciate Yesung and Hangeng spam. For the OTP, EunHae and Sibum please!!