Question 117
Suju Advice ColumnBittersweet_Goodbye
OMG, I love this so much! hehe, of and can i get a piece of advice too? Sorry if my problem is a bit long though. Hope u guys don't mind?
So, I got this odd problem you see. I once had this person who liked me and, since i he's a nice guy, i start liking him too. But for some reason, my parents, mom especially, started to make it a big deal. she always got mad whenever we text each other and in the end, i broke it off without even having the chance of being official. The following months after that was really tough because everytime, she would bring the guys name out and like keep on lecturing stuffs at me. Then i got really uncomfortable because somehow a lot of person know about it and they start teasing me about it. I absolutely hate it!
Until now, everytime there's someone who said that they're a bit interested in me, i will always keep my distance because i always got reminded of that. it was like the hardest year in my life! I never said anything to the guys who i like and i skipped away from those who did. It's like i'm throwing away all potential relationship.
My mom, somehow indirectly the cause of all this, started lecturing me about being unattractive to boys and stuffs. i told her i'm not interested in dating as an excuse but then she mocked me often. but once i express a mutual interest with someone and then the whole circle started again! started from the lectures to the teasing from those nosy people >.< It's like my mom wanted me to have a relationship but everytime she also don't want me to!
How am i going to deal with this?! I wanted to have relationships without being afraid of getting caught or the other person being humiliated and finally distance themselves away from me again! Just what am i supposed to do?!
Thank you so much if you will answer this! Oh, and i am a hardcore Hyukhae fan and my bias are Leeteuk and Donghae! Goodluck and thanks for your newest album KRY! Goodluck for Eunhae too!
Sungmin: So your mom actually gave you a lecture about you being unattractive? Isn't that a little...
Heechul: Yeah and isn't she supposed to like give you advice or support?
Eunhyuk: Maybe she's one of those moms that thinks just because their kids are dating that they are having .
Kibum: Like Umma?
Eunhyuk: Keke Exactly.
Leeteuk: I think you should decide for yourself whether or not you want to date. If you decide to date again remember that whatever happened in the past is in the past. Don't think too much of it.
Donghae: And don't care about what your mom or the people around you might say. It's about U. Only U.
Sungmin: :D you made like two song references right now.
Donghae: Haha I did!
Leeteuk: Can you please remove that gif! It's ruining my image!
Eunhyuk: But it fits you so perfectly!
Heechul: Mother is not pleased? Why? You think Hangeng's too bad for me? :D
Leeteuk: Actually I think you're to bad for my Hangeng.
Heechul: -__-
Leeteuk: Just kidding. I love you both.
Yesung: Hey! Ryeowook and me--
Ryeowook: Ryeowook and I.
Yesung: Right...Ryeowook and I are back from the store.
Donghae: Did you get the lube I asked for?
Yesung: -___________________________________- No.
Eunhyuk: Hyung! You're terrible at errands! At least Leeteuk hyung remembers our lube!
Leeteuk: Unfortunately...
Ryeowook: Oh thank you! We worked really hard on our album!
Yesung: Oh! Yeah! Thank you.
Eunhyuk: And good luck to you too!
Donghae: May you find a relationship as good as ours!
Leeteuk: Bye!
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