Hoyalover32
Uhh, I have been here before and the advice really helped me. Now I would really appreciate some more advice help! I have this friend that has been very close to me since he moved to our high school from out of town freshmen year (which was last year) well we have alwayed been very close and he always got along very well. Freshmen year we sat next to each other in two classes that we had together, we where both in band he plays trumpet and I play tenor sax. We also both did sports I was a basketball player and he was a runner. That year we went to area marching in Larado. I think there we got even more close then we already were, and freshmen year went great, we never fought and never even argued and I considered him my third bestfriend. Then sophmore year came (which is this year) and we had two classes together we were still very close. But then about two weeks before pigskin a junior asked him out, I tried to convince him not to go out with her becuase she has a reputation of cheating on all the guys she went out with and she even went out with my bestfriend since 1st grade and cheated on him and broke his heart and I didn't want that to happen to my other friend. So I after what seem like forever trying to convince him not to go out with her, about a week later he told he had been joking with me and that he never considered going out with her that he had to her no right when she asked and that he never actually thought about it. So I was relived of course , but then my other two best friends keep telling me that I must like him because of all the things I had done for him. And I denied it. But I guess I didn't know my own feelings.
That was until our pigskin after party ( we got straight 1's ) I had baked him 2 dozen chocolate cupcakes as good luck ( I couldn't march because of heart problems) then at the pigskin after party we saw each other and hugged each other ( cause of the straight ones, because I don't hug people even my best friends I know it's weird but I just don't like people touching me) and I asked if he liked the cupcakes and he said yes that they were really good, and then he gave me a kiss on the cheek and then said thank you. I kid you not I thought I was going to have a damn heart attack!! And that's when I realized that I liked him. It made sence why I would sometimes do his homework or how I have done his projects when he forgets to do them, and how I baked for the first time in my life just cause he wanted cupcakes, and how I would walk him to his classes even tho I would be late to my classes. But I value friendship more then anything so I keeper my feelings to my self. And evetually after trying so hard I started forgetting them, but then suddentally they came back. And I told myself (I know it's stupid but YOLO) and I did everything to get closer to him when he was walking alone I would go behind him and cover his eyes and walk him to track like that. I would link arms with him whenever we would walk next to each other. I also tried to hug him more( but it doesn't matter if I liked him, I still don't like people touching me) so that failed. I tried tho . But then when we came back from spring break and ever thing changed he started to avoid me, he won't talk to me in class anymore, we won't wait for me anymore to walk to class, he shook his arm off whenever I would try to hold it, and I thought he was mad at me or something, but we would still talk after school him been a guy I thought it was just gonna pass by but it didn't it got worse. he replaced me with other people, there was a girl waiting outside our class for him and he walked to class with her and he didn't even look at me and just walked away, then in the two classes I had him for, he stopped talking to me and instead started talking to two girls ( one in each class) and did everything we would do with me, with them. I still hopped it was going to blow through but he ignored me even more, he avoided me, and doesn't even look my way at all. Becuase he would avoid me I couldn't ask him about it. So I wrote a note and gave it to him, my ultimate bestfriend saw was going and she didn't like to see me sad so she went to talk to him and whenever she would bring it up he would avoid it. I'm literally dying inside, I feel like I'm losing him and I hate it. I just want our friendship back. I miss him sooooo much. I miss covering his eyes when he would walk in the halls, I miss him always knowing it was me becuase of my hands ( what he says) I miss watching him run for track, I miss walking him to class, I miss the dumb conversations we used to have, I miss helping him in work he didn't understand, I miss been the one to wake him up when he was sleeping in class, I miss picking fights with him, I miss holding his arm, I miss when he would smile and laugh at something I would say, I miss him always trying to hug me, I miss messing with his hair, I miss having to look up to him to talk ( I'm really tall I usually look down to talk to people), I miss borrowing his jacket, I miss him spraying me with his cologne( he would do that often) ,I miss it when he would say stupidest things that don't make sence, I miss having him by my side, I miss playing game with him , I miss been able to be near him,I miss him knowing my voice and turning only when I call him, I just miss him. And I don't know what to do now? I feel hopeless, please help I don't know what more I can do to regain his friendship. Please please I need so advice

    Heechul: You know what you need to do. Confront him! Walk up to him look him in the eye and ask him what is wrong. Don't hide behind notes just straight forward ask him.

Donghae: If he doesn't want to talk then all you can do is let him go. You shouldn't hurt yourself for some guy who won't pay attention to you. You deserve better!

Leeteuk: Hope you find happiness ELF!

Everyone: Saranghae