Question 267
Suju Advice ColumnHommieSJ1307
SJ oppas I've always felt like I'm worth nothing.
You see as I was growing up my parents had always compared me to my friends who excels in education or my friends that they think that are "better" than me. They always told me stuff like "Oh you should be like her because she's so smart". Then now that I'm in high school they seem to always compare me to my best friend.
You see my best friend excels in all of her classes, getting all of the academic awards during our graduation in elementary school and my best friend being the top student in all of the students in my grade. But it doesn't mean that I have bad grades, infact I'm also a honour student (not bragging or anything). But it just that my best friend had always been better than me.
One time when my parents found out about my best friend being the smartest kid in my grade, they barged in, in my room and keep telling me that "Oh look Andrea is in the newspaper. Next time you should surpass her". When I heard that from my parents I felt more pressured in school. Since I was growing up my parents had always made me go study until 12 at night sometimes even 1 in the morning, Heck they even signed me up for after school tutoring. It may sound like I'm jealous of my best friend but NO I am not, I always hug her and congratulate her whenever she recieve an achievement award.
Anyways, I did try talking to my parents about all of the pressures I'm experiencing, the stress that I've been going through since I grow up and how I try my hardest everytime but those words just never seem to get inside there head. So what should I do?
Sungmin: Poor ELF. Feeling pressured by their parents.
Heechul: If your parents still can't realize the kind of stress they put on you then don't bother. Just don't care anymore. I mean continue to get good grades, but don't try to push yourself.
Kangin: Everyone excells at their own level. Your parents will realize that soon enough. I mean look at me and Leeteuk. We can't dance as well as Eunhyuk and Donghae, but we're awesome at MCing.
Leeteuk: Yes we are.
Kangteuk: *high five*
Donghae: For your information hyung, my MC skills have improved.
Kangin: Whatever.
Donghae: *rejected*
I'm a big KyuMin shipper ^^. But I'm seriously hating on Kyuhyun right now it looks like he's always ignoring Sungmin lately and I'm not happy >:( But I still love you Kyuhyun Oppa! And of course the rest of Super Junior Oppa xoxo :D
Kyuhyun: What.
Heechul: Everyone RUN! I'll hold him off!
Kyuhyun: No it's okay. I'm just aghast at some of these ELF I mean I'm Cho Kyuhyun, supreme ruler.
Everyone:
Kyuhyun: Anyways, just because we don't show love onstage doesn't mean we're not going at it offstage.
Sungmin: Exactly.
Kyuhyun: Now if you all excuse me. I have some Mario Kart to play. *struts off*
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