Question 247

Suju Advice Column

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Hey suju oppas :) I need advice on friendship problems
Basically my best friend has been annoying me, I've been feeling depressed and now I'm avoiding all of my friends.

1. She told me I would go to a community college if I failed my French class
2. She talked about me behind my back
3. She made me depressed for more than a day or two!
I mean I'm a usually optimistic person so I can get back on my feel very quickly but the more I hang around her the more pessimistic I become
It sounds weird but my parents are against my friendship with her, they want me to end it with her as soon as possible :/
I started avoiding everyone because I felt like I had no real friends, I honestly felt like I have no place where I belong.
I was thinking about this earlier, when I see bands like suju and Bigbang together on my computer screen, having fun, laughing, I feel so envious, I think why can't I find friends who are like that?
So any advice on how to deal with this once I go back to school?

Eunhyuk oppa you're my favorite oppa ^^ but you tie with Heenim and Hae kyu and min :p but I like everyone else too, why are you guys so perfect ＿|￣|○ I can't choose ~

Sungmin: For once I think your parents are right. You shouldn't have friends that are going to be hurting you.

Kangin: Where is this friend? She talk bad about you want me to beat her up?

Heechul: You can't hit girls Kim Youngwoon!

Kangin: Aish! Well I don't like seeing my ELF so hurt!

Kyuhyun: Your ELF? You mean my ELF.

Eunhyuk: My ELF!

Heechul: MY ELF!

Donghae: My ELF!

Leeteuk: My ELF!

Siwon: My ELF!

Hangeng: My ELF!

Ryeowook: My ELF?

Everyone: NO!

Kibum: What you need to do is decide if you really want to stay with that friend.

Siwon: And don't start thinking that all your friends are going to be like that!

Donghae: Yeah try and meet more friends and have fun with them. Go eat together or the movies or just hang out and joke around.

Leeteuk: And don't worry we don't always get along, sometimes we fight.

Heechul: Yeah sometimes I get tired of all their annoying voices.

Everyone: >.>

Heechul: And faces. <.<

Everyone: *agree*

Kangin: But even though we do fight and we do get tired we're close like siblings. And we get used to all the annoying things we all do. So, try and find friends that you can get close to and be able to put up with.


woah maybe too graphic lol! >///< Is it hot in here or is it just me? keke

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Anime_Otome #1
Chapter 402: Hi I'm in 8th grade and I need advice
I'm pretty much socially awkward except with people I know and an comfy with like my cousins. In school I'll be like that one loner in the corner My classmates don't like me even though I never did anything to them and it's pretty saddening next year I'm going to high school and I feel very depressed will I spend my whole high school year like this? Haha sorry SuJu that got depression fast XD anyways thanks and my Ultimate Biases are Yesung Ryeowook and Zhoumi I can't choose one >.< and my favorite OTP Yewook of course ;) PPLEASE LORD SHISUS BRING IN THE SPAM ^_^
RJ_kpop #2
Chapter 99: First of all...I am not mental for writing this and second I really love this fic. so this is kinds long so sorry...

I really love you Cho Kyuhyun! you need to remember that many people in this world loves you because you're such a lovable human being and no one in this world will ever hate you! you deserve to be spoiled and loved! you will forever be a kid in my eyes! XD continue being evil and if you will ever think of plotting world domination I will totally support you and help you recruit members for your army!!! CHOKYU JJANG!
and KRY you are the best vocalists ever! thanKYU very much for existing in this world!!! luv u and all Suju members! (but I love Kyuhyun more) XD
and please Kyuhyun and KRY spam please!!!
p/s: luv u authornim for making this fic *I'm still not halfway through though* XD
FOREVER KYUHYUN BIASED! LOVE U CHOKYU!!!
seobiefairy #3
Chapter 145: What if I got friends that is actually erm how do i say this? Hypocrite? Lets put numbers for this. At first, when 1 entred degree, she kinda get new friends and apart from us, the foundation friend. But the other in my group (2,3,4,5) is talking like how she is abandoning us and confront her saying that she changed hearts and dont want to befriend with us anymore. But now, 2 is just the same. She found other friends to share stories with and asks opinions rather than telling it to me too. Hm i feel sad.

Ps: Lee Donghae-ssi; my first ever bias, and still is my bias, please be healthy and happy okay? Stay handsome, love♡ and Super Junior, fighting!
Laurensmiles #4
Chapter 402: Happy 400 author-nim!!!

I have a bigger question than the one I had before.

What does it mean when a boy says, "You know, is it weird to say that I think I could see us dating?"

I'm really confused and I don't know what that means but j want to still be friends with this person. And I literally only met this person a few days ago so it's really awkward...

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TaiShanNiangNiang #5
Chapter 402: Whoa, Happy 400!!! :)
mybabyhaehae #6
Chapter 402: Hello oppas =)
I love tou all so much hehe :-D
Mmm i has a studying problem
Im in my senior year and after two munths my final exams will get start , my problem is i cant study proberly "hard" like {i just oppen the book read some of it and then close it } and somtimes i lost foucus in class's idw why.
So i really nees soeme good advice oppas to help me return on stuyding :-)
Ps: i want leeteuk , Eunhae spam please
Thanx ♡
Laurensmiles #7
Chapter 401: Hi, I'm back and I took your advice. I broke up with and said that I would need some time to think, but now he won't leave me alone. He emails me, he skypes me and keeps trying to confront me and all about stuff. But right now I just want some alone time. Also the person I like everyone sees us as a couple. But he kinda sees me as his younger sister. What do I do? Also, thanks Heechul, I know I'm special now. I love writing and I hope to be a famous writer and singer.
Zhoury/HenMi Spam please!! And Henry spam!!!!
LoveSHINeeSuJu #8
Chapter 401: hello oppas it's me again, thank you eunhae for the advice the previous time. remember that time where I told you about the boy that I really like but he's giving me mixed signals? so, I didn't manage to muster the courage to confess to him, but here's the thing. I have this really close friend of mine, let's name her Z. Z used to like guy A (the guy that I like) for a period of time, but she told me she moved on to guy B. Recently, Z told me that she doesn't like B anymore and that she has been boasting to me about her conversations with A even tho she knows that I like guy A. Z is really pretty and a much much better person than me, so I guess the probability of A liking Z would be higher. She has no wrong for talking to him at all, but I don't know why she always tell me how close A and her are. I don't want to break this friendship by confronting her, and am at a loss of what to do since I'm getting so affected by it. eunhae & kyu, can you give me advice on how not to be affected by it? :(
Sujufan123 #9
Chapter 401: *first I'm really sorry for my Eng i hope it isn't that bad*
Annyeonghaseyo!~
I have a problem, *that's why i'm here lol*
I have my friend, i know her for 8 years and i really like her. Now we are in new school, new class and we've got in it some y girls. They think they are the best just because they're trying to show everywhere their s. In fact, they are stupid *really, just watch them during lessons* They also drink alcohol *they are 13-14*. And they became friends with my friend. They were drinking together and as a friend I'm worried. We were also arguing a lot, because of them. Now i feel that we aren't friends anymore. My friend calls me only when she has a problem in homework, we don't see each other, she just doesn't treat me like a friend. When I tried to talk about it she sayed that it's normal and she just want to spend time with someone else. I feel really hurt I don't want her to be friends with those girls. What should I do? Leave her alone? Oppas help! :<
PS. WOOKIE OPPA SARANGHAE ♥ Sorry YeYe but recently I've been shipping KyuWook ♥ So can I have Ryeowook and Kyuwook spam? ^^
Laurensmiles #10
Chapter 399: 안녕 선배!!!

Guys I have a problem, so, my boyfriend and I got together rather spontaneously and i think he's developed, kind of, "SoulMate" feelings for me. I don't really know how cause I'm not really anything special. But I'm confused cause I think I like this other boy, Boy A. But I think that if I tell him that not only will I probably never be able to talk to him again if he rejects me but I'll lose a really really good friend. And I don't want to do that.

So I guess what I'm saying is, how do I figure out if I really love someone?
And how do I tell someone I have a crush on them. I was thinking love letter but that's really cliché so... Please help me!!!

I would appreciate Yesung and Hangeng spam. For the OTP, EunHae and Sibum please!!
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