DannyJ

Another advice again truly seeking for some help. It's been 5 months since he and I broke up. It was actually my fault at all anyway I broke up with him coz I am scared of what will happen in the mere future. He didnt want us to end he kept begging me to rethink again but I am the kind of person that once I decided something I will do it no matter what. After the break up we remain friends but I still love him and it hurts to see he is not taking care of himself for the past days so I decided to go back to him and be together again. It was perfect coz he accepted me again and he made me feel the happiest person alive but after a day he broke up with me telling the reason he will be busy in college and he will not have a time for me but it is alright for me as long as he was there beside me all the time but it happened. We didnt talk after the 2nd breakup. I avoided him all my might and last month we talked and we had this closure between the two of us. We bumped into each other in a Kpop Event last month too a few days after our talk. I was alone that time buying nail polish in the FaceShopStall when I saw him again after the 5 months of avoiding him a lot. He was staring at me and I stared at him for some quite time too and he flashed me a smile that made the butterflies come back again. I still do love him until now but I am great at pretending always. We always bump into each other a lot during the event and he was staring a lot at me. I was with my 2 gay bestfriends and a girl bestfriend and somehow I was watching some performance of some cover groups and he was beside me 2 meters away he was watching too like me and all the time I was laughing and I am aware that he is just beside me staring at me again. I pretended I was fine and happy but I know I am not coz I want us back and I know he still loves me too coz he is always around me the whole event and he was staring at me a lot like before. And as of now he has someone in his life and it hurts a lot. Ottokae?    

Leeteuk: This is quite complicated.

Heechul: Not really Teuk, I know what to say.

Leeteuk: Oh really?

Heechul: Yes.

Leeteuk: Well?

Heechul: Well, I'm sorry to say this but if there is someone in his life. It means he's moved on. I would suggest trying to get over him. You have tried to be together twice and it didn't work out. I think that's trying to tell you something.

Leeteuk: Take some time for yourself and think about yourself. Think about your school and future. If he broke up with you because of college and not enough time for you then he clearly doesn't love you as much as you think. A person who really loves you makes time for you. Even if it's only for an hour or even 5 minutes.

Kangin: Yes, I always make time for my Teukie.

Leeteuk: :D

Kangin: It's really hard to break up, you see a person and there is still feelings but getting back together wouldn't be recommended. Because every time you try and get back together and keep breaking up you never know what other person may have wanted to be with you. That person may be someone who will make time for you no matter what.

Heechul: Also I woud like to add. That you shouldn't keep getting back together with someone just because you're used to them. That means you're too used to the same person and you're not letting yourself go out and meet different people.

Leeteuk: The decision is up to you ELF, good luck!