Question 219
Suju Advice ColumnTegwi_Panda
Hey again guise! Thank you a lot for the advice before!<3 And thank you authornim too, I forgot to thank you last time, so mianhae!
I was wondering if you could help me out again?
I'm getting really annoyed with my family lately. I'm a person that loves my family a lot and I hate it when they fall out. But the trouble is my family never seem to care about me.
My mum knows that I hate to be involved when she's talking behind their backs and insists on doing it to me anyways, then wonders why I tell her to stop and walk away.
They all backstab soooo much and I won't do it and they think that I'm being stuck up because of that?!
It's just really annoying me now. My family isn't the most... functional one, but I hate that people can't just stop being so 2-faced all the time.
I've talked to them all about it, but they think they're doing nothing wrong. My mum even twists people's words and makes it seems like they're doing things wrong when they aren't. -___-
And so now, I can't tell her anything without it getting out and being twisted into lies.
What can I do to either get them to stop, or to get them to stop trying to make me involved?!
I really miss having a loving family.
Thanks again guys! Much love *hugs all around*
(P.S, Kyu, you're still my bias in suju, mainly because of your 'evil' ways. Honestly, you're HILARIOUS! Ahaa, take good care of Sungminnie Oppa! Love you guys! Oh and Eunhae, you guys are still too adorable! kekeke<3 *hugs*)
Leeteuk: I'm sorry to say this but it can't be avoided.
Sungmin: Hyung why are you being so negative?!
Leeteuk: It can't be helped! I've known people my whole lfe who are like that and they can't really be changed. Your family is just like that.
Kibum: You can try and have a serious talk with them. Sit them down and tell them you really are uncomfortable with them talking bad about others.
Sungmin: Or maybe just try and avoid it because sometimes it can't be helped.
Leeteuk: Yeah even if your family does talk bad on each other but in the end they're family and they'll love and help each other no matter what. Talking bad is just gossip, it dies away eventually.
Sungmin: Way to redeem yourself hyung! ^^
Leeteuk: ^^
Kibum: Good luck!
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