"Uhm I have this friend well actually she's my cousin and we've been with together scince birth and now I feel like I'm losing her, we talk about a lot of stuff and all those other things but right now I feel like we're inscured and she might move so that's the saddest part, she's the bestest friend/cousin I could ever have but I feel like I'm losing her. One of my fears is having all those people I love, drift away. All of my friends are leaving me T_T"

-YourFriend

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infinitlybana says...

Wait....

hold up...

Your nickname thingie is creeping me out...

Are you really my friend? O-o?

Do I know you?

Your manipulating me TT^TT

sobs

Okay ill help you even though I'm scared you might know me.....gahahhaa....

(your name is really freaking me out...)

GUrl~

I totally get you,

If you read any of my other replies....

I'm a veryyy insecure awkward person.

I feel awkward with just about every single person in this world.

Especially when that person is hot TT^TT

I can barely talk to them without staring at their faces.

oh gosh.

Truth is I have the fear of loosing one of my bestest friends too.

I live with that fear every day.

I'm afraid I'll loose everyone.

Even the people I don't love.

Because deep inside I love everyone.

If it feels like that person is being insecure and awkward to you on purpose?

I would just leave.

Because I'm a very awkward person and if anyone acts like they don't like me and signal for me to leave?

I'll leave.

BUT.

I actually hate my personality.

I hate when I do that.

I wish I could stick to them and be annoying and stay with that person for forever.

But being the dumb person I am...

I just can't get myself to...

But I would totally confront her if she was pushing you away..

But I have no right to give you advice like that...

Because even I can't do that.

BUT if she's just awkward and insecure naturally?

Then...

I would DEFINITELY confront her.

I would be like...

Is there something wrong?

Is there something I did?

And I would ask.

Because it could be a huge misunderstanding right?

I mean she's your cousin.

I'm pretty sure you guys will stay close your whole entire life~

It's hard to 'loose' family members...

Right?

Yeollie and I love you~~^^ <<333

b1a4lova says....

I think I know how you feel. 

Loosing someone that have been with you is a tough thing. 

Especially when you don't want to let go of them. 

I actually lost a lot of friends mostly because of misunderstanding.

And today... I was watching WGM (We Got Married) 

and Naeun from A-Pink asked this guy how he like keeps a relationship or something.

He said

"We solve it with talking it out with each other."

Then it hit me.

I was like I should've just talked it out with them instead of ignoring them or feeling nervous of loosing them.

So I think it'll be like the best to talk it out with your friends.

NEVER IGNORE THEM CAUSE THAT MAKES EVERYTHING WORSE!

I mean I shouldn't be saying this cause I was the type of person that would ignore the person and wont tell them the reason why I'm mad at them.

To summarize what I'm saying...

btw thanks for letting it out :)

I strongly encourage you to maybe like talk it out. Be like

"hey, we haven't really hung out a lot these days" or something like that.

Maybe your cousin have a reason why she's doing that.