“He’s my only big brother (hyung) and they ruined the wedding for him. I feel like this is my fault. I have dishonored my family. There was never a time i thought about giving up because it’s my dream to be a singer… but these sasaeng’s are really changing me.” 

Okay over the past 24 hours I have seen way too much bashing, and I just wanted to express my views upon this matter.

RAGE: Their love is twisted and sick - I cannot believe they would drive the beautiful, polite and talented boys to even doubt their dreams and ambition because they cannot deal with the negative attention. AND NO DON'T YOU GIVE ME THAT CRAP ABOUT IDOLS NEEDING TO BE PREPARED TO DEAL WITH SASAENGS BECAUSE OF FAME. It doesn't ing have to be this way, okay? No one set any rules for the existence of sasaengs and this is NOT supposed to be a part of the kpop culture.

BUT: When we look at the sasaengs and think that they're crazy, also just take a moment to look at ourselves - when the practice videos/XOXO album were leaked over the internet, did you click the link out of curiosity? And the supposed "fancams" of the boys taken without their knowledge - aren't we also curious as to what they do in their spare time? Yes, they are on the more extreme ends of the fandom, but social sites like Tumblr, Twitter, Facebook and Weibo still publish and promote these photos and videos. We need to make a collective effort to change things TOGETHER, not just blaming everything on other people. To fight against this issue, IHAVEATHINGFOREXO has started an XOXO movement for banning the spread of fancams and leaks on the internet from being reblogged.

“I told you not to ignore us - why do you think we caused such a ruckus at the wedding in the first place? Our puppy is so cute when he's mad.” 

This was a sasaeng's letter to Baekhyun, threatening him to treat them nicer, or else they will 'show him the consequences'.

...Is it wrong to want to bring back the death penalty for sick and twisted people like this, who enjoy hurting innocent, perfectly good people? 

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