Junhong,

Don't. Just don't. You were on the rebound and very vulnerable. He took advantage.

He is a genuinely nice person but his maturity level is not even half of yours. Not that you are even matured.. Which makes it worse.

Physically, just wtf? He does not qualify any of your requirements.  Why? BECAUSE YOU WERE ON THE ING REBOUND. It was a momentary lapse of judgment.

He is messier than you for christ's sake. And god knows how messy you are.

You are not looking for a boyfriend remember? You want someone to be with for the rest of your life.

You wouldn’t want to live with that guy.

He is scared of kids. You want kids.

He is not the family guy you want.

As I have said, it was a momentary lapse of judgment.

-Junhong