SPARKS ARE FLYING FOR ⇝ 문새희 ⇜

SPARK CONNECTION
 south korean reality dating show
  x — About Me
Full Name:  moon saehui
nicknames:
➣ samantha | its her english name 
➣ sammy | her older sister is the only one that calls her that 
➣ sae | a general nickname that her friends call her 
➣ mandu | she had big cheeks when they were younger so choyeon calls her that 
BirthDate: 05/10/1999 (24)
hometown: ia, usa
Current City: seoul, south korea
Ethnicity:  korean
nationality: korean-american
Language:
➣ korean | 100% | she was raised in seoul for most her life
➣ english | 50% | she was born in america, it was her first language but after moving to seoul she didn't speak it as often

Height:  164cm
Weight:  50kg

faceclaim:  weki meki's rina
Back up FC:  weki meki's elly

Appearance:  saehui is just like her faceclaim. her hair is brown with no bangs. she usually just keeps it down in an off center part. she likes to wear light makeup like just eyeliner, fill in her brows and lip tint.  
Style:  saehui loves fashion and has great style. she doesn’t have the money to buy name brand things yet but she makes it work and can look expensive if she ever has to. she likes dressing up and would sacrifice her comfort for a nice outfit, especially when shes going to a club. she plans her outfits the night before or she’d be an hour late to work everyday. part of her wants to be more experimental and wear brighter colors but she tends to play it safe because with neutrals she doesn’t have the confidence to do so. she looks up to people who can wear what they want without caring about others judgments and so wishes she could be that way. her style can’t be pinpointed because it changes so much since she gets inspo from Pinterest and Instagram, but either way it can be called simple.
 
  x — Get To Know Me
Traits: INFP, TAURUS, HUFFLEPUFF
positive imaginative, emotional, quiet, friendly, self aware, adventurous, caring, loyal
negative passive, awkward, anxious, shy, timid, mischievous

Personailty: 
seulhui doesn’t think she stands out much, she finds herself to be really forgettable actually. usually the quiet girl, seulhui blends into a crowd easily. she’s a little awkward in big groups and at first meetings, unless the other person is a good talker then she doesn’t know what to say besides the basics. she has no problem replying though, she’s generally a friendly person that’ll talk to anyone she just has a problem initiating. when talking to people she’s unfamiliar with her voice naturally gets quieter and she’s used to repeating herself multiple times. only her true friends would know the real saehui that curses people out under her breath when they interrupt the flow of her walking on the street.

when hanging out with other people she tends to match their energy, she gets sad with them or are hype when they are. especially for people she’s comfortable with, they really set the mood for her. she has her boundaries though, talking bad about other people or judging them for no reason makes her uncomfortable. she’s a great listener and shoulder to cry on because she sympathizes easily. she’s also a loyal friend and won’t break that friendship unless boundaries are crossed.

she’s imaginative but also a chronic overthinker, her imagination is so vivid that she can imagine everything that’ll possibly go wrong for herself in any given situation. for other people she tends to be supportive but for herself she’s pessimistic. that makes her timid and unwilling to push herself to try new things because she’s scared of those infinite possibilities that probably won’t happen. she gives herself anxiety just by imagining all the worst case scenarios. if it was up to her she wouldn’t have any motivation. it’s other people that motivate her to get her stuff together like seeing her old schoolmates get jobs made her get one too.

she loves making bucket lists for the month that she never follows and planning short term things. long term plans make her uncomfortable, especially ones that aren’t materialistic. she could plan how she wants her future house all day but actually making her dream house happen is another story. all she knows is that she wants to be financially stable and have a dog, but who doesn’t want that. she gets envious of people she sees living the lifestyle she wants, she’ll never tell them that though. she rather lay in bed eating chips thinking how ugly and untalented she is. her confidence is really fluctuates, for some reason she cares what everyone thinks like that one person she didn’t talk to in 6th grade will judge the crap out of her.

when dealing with conflict she’s not the best even though she has a lot of emotions. since her parents never talked about theirs in a healthy manner, saehui grew up hiding here too. she actually won’t say she’s upset unless someone asks her, a lot of the time she goes through things alone. when she does get asked she’s at a point where she’s bottled it up so much that she starts crying. she’s not good at expressing how she feels, she rather deal with a situation because it’s what she’s used to than move on. no matter if it’s toxic or unhealthy for her. she bottles up her concerns so often that she can never say it all at once, it takes her a while to get all her points across because she has to think about it. make sure she’s not overthinking and assess with herself if it’s worth bringing up or is she fine living with it. if she doesn’t like the way something is being done she almost never says it and by the time she gets the guts to say it it’s the next day and everyone moved on. she wishes she could be the kind of person to just scream everything that’s on her mind but she can’t. she really doesn’t like confrontation.

when she’s comfortable around you she can have a savage side. you learn that her judgy side eyes are just her being funny and she actually lvoes your weird sides. she would enthuse to you about what sh elearned from her random documentaries that she watches. she’s always been mischievous, when she was younger she secretly put ketchup in her neighbors shoes outside their apartment because they kept making so much noise upstairs. but no one would suspect her because she doesn’t seem the type. she curses like a sailor when she’s mad and has a wild side when shes drunk like she finally lets loose and isn’t afraid of judgment for once. to her good friends she’s really caring, she isn’t the type to get taken advantage of because for people she doesn’t know she won’t be attentive to them. but for her friends she’s there if they need her. she loves spending time with others and wants to explore with them, shes always down to try new things. one of her main problems is that she’s so timid that she never initiates anything. she would hint at things she wants like send a picture of a pretty restaurant nearby but she won’t ask if he wants to go straightforwardly.

but saehui already knows all her problems. she’s googled it and took a test on a random website to confirm that she has anxiety and is an infp and read all about it, it’s apart of her overthinking. she knows herself, it’s just a matter of putting herself out there and finding what she truly wants.
 
  x — The Little Things About Me
O1: Likes :
❤ food, her favorites are pho, gamjatang noodles, chinese sweet and sour chicken
❤ junk food, shrimp chips, those sausage stick snacks, samanco red bean ice cream, salt and vinegar lay’s
❤ desserts, her favorite are anything tiramisu flavor, banana milk, japanese fruit sandwiches especially strawberry, and dried mangos
❤ going to photobooths to take pics with her friends and putting them on her wall
❤ netflix and youtube documentaries
❤ aesthetic things
❤ fashion
❤ clubbing
❤ sales
❤ dressing up
❤ bottomless brunch
❤ spring and summer
❤ dogs
❤ raves
❤ putting a half cooked egg in her noods

O2: dislikes :
❤ the bubbles in bubbles tea
❤ anything with thriller or horror
❤ public speaking
❤ crowded places
❤ cold weather
❤ having her hair in a middle part
❤ cats
❤ kimchi, she’s a bad korean
❤ when her nails are plain
❤ when guys initiate skinship too fast
❤ guys that ask for her number out of nowhere because she gets nervous and can’t reject them so she actually gives it
❤ spam emails
❤ slow texters

❤ her boss
❤ that feeling after posting on Instagram and wondering if she should delete it
❤ children, she’s so awkward with them


O3: hobbies :
❤ reading, she likes all kinds of books except horror or thriller. She mostly reads self help books
❤ shopping, she would try on clothes at the stores then wait for them to go on sale online if it’s too expensive. she likes finding cute little home decor things like a cute bowl or a piece of art to add to her room
❤ photography, she only recently started taking it seriously by buying a digital camera but she lvoes taking it with her when she goes out
❤ making a list of goals and things she wants to do at the beginning of every month
❤ journaling, she prints the pictures she takes with her friends and puts them in her journal with a few words about it and the date. she has a whole bin of stationery to decorate it with
❤ doing her nails, she’s far from a professional but she learned from tutorials on YouTube and make her own fake nails. she has a little bin full of decorations to add and a nail lamp too cooking, she’s an occasional cooker mostly to try new recipes

O4: habits :
❤ being late
❤ wrinkling her nose when she gets frustrated
❤ picking under her nails
❤ accidentally underdressing for the weather everytime
❤ casually taking any pretty flower she finds in public and putting it in her phone case so it can squish and dry so she can put it in her journal
❤ picking her nose when she’s alone
❤ smacking her lips when she chews and slurping her noodles
❤ being late all the time 
❤ deleting her Instagram posts
❤ snacking all the time, especislly at night 

O5: fears

❤ an unwanted intruder entering her home. she knows it sounds ridiculous but sometimes she checks under her bed and in her closet just incase
❤ rats and mice or anything that looks equivalent. if she stares at a rabbit too long it’ll start to freak her out because it lowkey looks like a rat
❤ blood. she feels lightheaded over the sight of blood no matter how small

O6: trivias :
❤ she really wants to go on a road trip but can't drive
❤ she caught her dad cheating on her mom when she was younger and her parents stayaed together after that which she never understood. her dad remained unfaithful the whole time
❤ she had a boyfriend since highschool but they broke up a year ago. he never put her first and didn't have any ambition. he always put gaming and the boys first
❤ she loves free things so she follows an Instagram that tells her all the free events like free samples and free food events around seoul
❤ she likes girl groups more than boy groups. she mostly watches their stages to see their outfits
❤ twice is her favorite girl group and she went to their concert once but she doesn’t think she’s dedicated enough to call herself a once
❤ other than kpop she likes chill music and edm
❤ she’s lactose intolerant but takes a pill whenever she’s going to eat or drink dairy
❤ she only likes coffee with milk
❤ she’s a social drinker and smoker. if she’s bored enough she might do it on her own too though
❤ her alcohol tolerance isn’t bad, she gets drunk after 4 tequila shots. She doesnt like vodka shots because she gets a bad hangover. When shes drunk she dances everywhere if theres music, can talk to anyone and calls people out when annoyed
❤ there’s always room for dessert in her belly
❤ she’s trying to be a plant mom but they keep dying on her
❤ she doesn’t want kids in the future. thinking about it stresses her out because all she can think of is how expensive they are. she wants a golden retriever dog instead.
❤ instagram and tiktok : moonsforhui. she posts on isntagram sometimes, mostly stories but she deosn't post on tiktok just there to watch and comment on stuff
 
  x — My Work Life
work background: she went to kyunghee university as a marketing major for 4 years then started working as a marketing coordinator for a small korean skincare company called maskist.  Thats where shes been working for the last 2 years. she didn't have any passion for marketing, just thought it made good money then later regret studying comp sci. she's still trying to figure out her passions.

schedule:
Monday-thursday
8am:
wake up
9am: work start
9:30am: when she actually gets to work
1pm: lunch break
6pm: work end
6:30pm: when she actually leaves work

friday (wfh)
​​​​​8:45am: wake up
9am: work start
1pm: lunch break
6pm: work end

daily routine: she is always late to work except for fridays since she works from home. usually she doesn’t eat breakfast unless her parents make something. she can’t drive so she takes the train. she’ll spend her time on the computer answering emails or making phone calls for her boss while occasionally scrolling through instagram when no one’s looking. if she’s really tired she’ll make herself a coffee but besides that she’s not much of a coffee drinker.

she doesn’t have a break until 1pm which is her lunch break, she usually gets lunch with a friend unless and enjoys trying new restaurants in the area. sometimes her parents make her lunch so she would just eat that at the office instead.

she ends work at 6pm, some days she would go along with her coworkers to get dinner and drinks other days she'd go with her other friends. but most commonly she eats the dinner at home that her mom made. her family hasn’t eaten together in a long time, saehui got used to eating her food at her desk while watching Netflix. she is typically so exhausted after work that she sleeps at 12pm, 11pm the earliest.

on the weekends saehui is free. depending on how Friday went and her plans for the weekend she wakes up anywhere from 11pm to 2pm. these are the days that she likes to spend with friends exploring and usually goes partying on saturdays.

other than that saehui would spend her free time at home having her own Netflix marathon or find a documentary to watch on YouTube with trying to make new nails and journaling or online shopping.

on the rare occasion choyeon would be available to spend time together or invite her somewhere fancy or just spend quality time together. another rare occasion would be her helping her parents at the hair salon, she usually just works as the hair washer. since she doesn’t get paid that would be something she does if she’s really bored.
 
  x — My Guests

  
older sister – moon solhui – 30 – stay at home mom – choi sooyoung :
saehui sees solhui as the better sister. whenever she’s around the house gets so much more lively, even if it’s just on videochat. her on the phone is what brings everyone together for once. she visits every summer and Christmas/New Years with her daughters huiyoung and her husband jihoon. she doesn’t let being a mom stop her life, she still goes out and parties and travels. but she’s currently pregnant again with her second child so she’s taking it easy. her husband owns a chain of restaurants in seoul so she has some money now. saehui doesn’t want to be a mom but she does look up to her sister with a little envy. she wishes she could be as outgoing and bubbly as her. but saehui is close to solhui, solhui made sure to keep in touch with saehui often as they grew up despite the age difference. now that she’s busy with her family she doesn’t tell her as much as she used to but if she had a serious problem she’d take her sisters advice. solhui thinks that saehui is too young to be committed to one guy for so long. she’s at the age where she should explore her options and find herself. it’s not the first time solhui give her that advice but she never took it.

  
best friend – ahn choyeon – 24 – soloist – wekimeki's doyeon :
saehui doesn’t know what she’d do without choyeon. she’s been her best friend since middle school and they stayed close through choyeon switching highschools was becoming a trainee. saehui is her oldest friend that has a special place in choyeon’s heart, she’s one of the people that know saehui the best, even her ex went to her when he didn't know what to do. choyeon debuted as a solo artist in 2018 and has a good sized fanbase. choyeon is a very driven and confident person, if she wants something she puts her mind to it. she’s a social butterfly that commands the room and can make friends anywhere she goes. her opinions are strong and some people call her y because she doesn’t tolerate bull crap and doesn’t believe in sugarcoating things. if she thinks saehui is being ridiculous for whatever reason then she’ll tell her. she tells her the truth everytime. she prefers to be unbiased but there were times when choyeon screamed at saehui's ex on the phone because saehui was hurt. then later she’ll tel saehui how dumb she is for not saying how she feels. everytime he messed up choyeon is the first one to tell her to break up with him. she tries to ask saehui how she’s doing once a month because she knows if she doesn’t saehui would keep it all in. choyeon invites saehui to every event she can and misses her like crazy on the daily.

  
friend – baek taerin – 24 – dental assistant – wekimeki's yoojung : saehui met taerin through her ex boyfriend. she stayed friends with her while not being friends with her ex anymore because of how he treated saehui. they aren't very close, they mostly hang out in a group and that group usually goes clubbing or raves together. so she sees saehui more drunk than sober. taerin is kind of an alcoholic that just wants to have fun, a big friendly personality. she wants to see saehui happy with a nice guy. she doesn't know saehui at her core though, she knows the drunk saehui that is outgoing and rowdy and how she kissed two guys in one night one time because they were tall with broad shoulders. 

 
  x — The Interview
why are you joining this show?
i want to find someone who is serious in love and wants a long term relationship, possibly marriage but we can talk about that later.

what is your ideal type?
my ideal type is someone thats fit and works out regularly. i don't really care about the face but as long he's tall and has broad shoulders, financially stable, emotionally mature, thats all that matters to me.

what do you look for in a relationship?
i want someone who will wine and dine me and not care about the money. Someone who is open and communicates with me so i don't overthink and someone driven, adventurous, and just takes charge like he surprises me on my birthday or plans dates. 

are you someone who falls in love quickly?
definitely not.

what is your ideal date?
a nice dinner where we can talk and get to know each other, and in the end he pays for it. i seriously can't stand the 50/50 thing.

what do you think your charming point is?
i think my loyalty is my most charming point, i'm a ride or die kind of girl.

What is your weak point or red flag?
oh man...hmm... after some self reflection, i do realize that i tend to be a little pessimistic and a google test told me that i have an anxious attachment style which some poeple might not like. some might see partying as a red flag too but its not like i'm out here hooking up with guys so.

what is your turn off or dealbreaker about a potential lover?
someone with an avoidant attachment style, my ex was like that and it was literally the source of most of our problems. If he's below 180cm. If he goes clubbing often thats such a red flag and if hes friends with his ex, absolutely not. I prefer someone the same age as me too and its not a deal breaker but i kind of hate facial hair.


what is your life goal?
honestly i just want to be financially stable and happy. I'm still trying to figure out what makes me happy and what i really want to do in life because my job now is not it.
 
  x — The Love Interest
  
full Name:  Han younggun 
nickname:

➣ gun | most people call him this  
➣ chef han | what he gets called at work 
➣ mittens | would be the name be goes by during text. he chose it since he's a chef.

birthdate: 12/13/2000
hometown:  goyang, south korea
current city: seoul, south korea
ethnicity: korean
nationality:  korean

occupation: head chef at han's kitchen incheon 

fc: riize's sungchan 
backup faceclaim: cix's hyunsuk

Traits:  entp, sagittarius, gryffindor
honest, driven, optimistic, practical, easygoing
restless, impulsive, workaholic, perfectionist, self sufficient  
Personality: on first meeting younggun is a friendly and outgoing person. talking to people is no problem for him and he can proudly enthuse about his job and food. he is good at motivating others to follow their dreams and find their passions. no matter what it is as long as its not harmful to them he just wants to see others live happily. his optimism shines through in any situation. despite being 23 he knows what he wants and isn't easily swayed by others, that includes with girls and any decision he makes. he always has an opinion and isn't afraid to say it but don't let opposite opinions bother himvery much, usually jsut taking an agree to disagree stance. he has no problem being independent and doing things on his own if no one has interest in it.

emotionally he is very good at expressing himself since he's a good talker. the type to make a speech off the top of his head and have everyone clapping at how amazing it was. he can easily identify how he feels and will tell you directly at that moment, he will pull you aside to tell you if anything. he doesn't like bad vibes so if someone doesn't suit him he'd just let them know their problems and if they continue he'd cut them off with no problem.

everyday he likes to be doing something. he finds being outdoors more relaxing than just laying in bed. since he's constantly on the move and wanting to try new things he seems restless. he has no problem with getting up and driving 3 hours away to do something he just saw on instagram with no planning. since he works a lot he wants to spend his day off enjoying life, not bed rotting.

he lets his job consume his life because since his dad put him in charge he wants it to do well. but he doesn't take into account that he doesn't have to do everything himself. he wants it all to be perfect so he rather do it himself than trust others with so much responsibility. he says when he has a girlfriend he'd lighten up his work load but his work load hasn't allowed time for a girlfriend. when it comes to his work and things he puts effort into he's a perfectionist. he puts so much effort in everything so it could come out perfect thats why he prefers to work on things alone. seeing his mom not support his dad subconsiously made him not even try to find someone to put that trust in to support him and help him out. but that someone is out there, he just has to find it.


Trivias:
he had 1 serious girlfriend culinary school that cheated on him so loyalty is a big thing for him. his other 5 girlfriends were all during grade school and not very serious
he is very good at planning dates since he has so much he wants to try and is a chivalrous guy
he is a flower dad
he has basically been all over seoul. on his weekends off he likes driving to jeju to see his parents since they moved there
he has an instagram and tiktok @chef__gun. he posts whenever he feels like it, usually places he goes or dishes he makes with some funny trends with staff on tiktok
cooking is like his first love
he has a car and drives to work everyday
he has his own apartment in seoul
he gets comfortable with skinship easily and enjoys simple skinships like hugs, hand holding, etc
he wants two kids in the future but for now if he lives with his partner he'd want a dog
he works out regularly
he is a blackpink fan
he can't stand guys that are tools and treat women badly or are ist 
he has a competitive streak
he prefers more natural beauties than a bunch of makeup
if he wasn't a chef he'd be a food critique because he loves writing
he writes poems and shares them in poetry nights at a bar near his home
he's done one night stands before but isn't too fond of them because it feels lonely afterwards
many girls find him flirty just because he's friendly but he always has manner hands
he doesn't mind partying but doesn't like getting drunk, just tipsy so he is still in control
❤ he has a big competitive streak


work background: younggun didn't grow up wealthy. His dad took a risk to quit his stable job and start a restaurant when he was 7. At first it was financially hard on the family and they almost got evicted but after 2 years it started to do really well and eventually he was able to open 4 across korea and 1 in japan. Younggun got his interest in cooking and drive from his father. He worked at the restaurant since he was 15 but cooking since he was 12. After going to culinary school his dad gifted him with making him head chef of a new branch in incheon.

schedule: his schedule is all over the place since he has a lot of responsibility. he usually only gets a day off per week or doesn't get a day off at all but since he's pratically in charge he chooses to be like that. but for the show he'd take two days off a week, at least try to. his days start early and end late. usually works 10 hours a day making sure the restaurant is running well. 

daily routine: he wakes up and gets food on the way to work. he gets there before everyone usually unless he gives someone else his duties and he can go in by lunch. after work he work would meet up with friends for drinks or go to the gym with friends. on his days off he doesn't like to spend it at home, he prefers to go out even if its on his own.

ideal type: i want someone thats easy going and willing to take the whole kids thing slow. honestly jennie is my ideal type looks wise but i don't really care for superficial things like that. 

why join the show: i want a stable relationship and most people my age don't want that.

what they're looking for in a relationship: i'm busy often so someone that is secure even if we don't see each other everyday. being open with each other without being judged. someone who supports my dreams is important too because i want to support their dreams and help make it happen as well since we're a team. also an exploring buddy who is open to different experiences would be nice since i can kind of be a busy body.

Their weak point or red flag: i can be a bit of a workaholic and since i work in a fast pace environment i like to figure things out quickly. so i'm pretty direct and sometimes i try to pry out the answers from other people so we can figure it out quickly and move on. i don't believe in going to sleep angry about anything. to me its not a red flag but i heard it could be overwhelming sometimes.

Their turn off or dealbreaker: i don't like someone that is judgmental or gossipy. let others live their lives, if they're not harming anyone then let them be.
 
  x — In Chatting App / The Show
Reason for their initial connection: 
- they have a lot of qualities that each of them want
- they both don't want to rush marriage and kids but want a long term relationship


texting style:
                               – funny convo – 

mittens: hi dudu, i hope you had a good day today.
mandu: wow we're already giving each other nicknames?
mittens: ofc! we are soulmates after all.
mandu: oh gosh you sound like a total love bomber
mittens: i'm not, just according to the matchmakers
mandu: uh huh
mandu: well it was exhausting and boring as usual
mittens: oh no, i hope talking with me is making it better
mandu: idk yet
mittens: ouch, i need to talk to those matchmakers about reconsidering
mandu: :O the audacity!!!!
mittens: i'm just kidding lol
mittens: but wait i have a serious question
mandu: what
mittens: are you going to hit me with that ddududdududdu
mandu: goodbye-


                               – serious convo – 
mandu: i'm reading this book and it has me questioning all life decisions
mittens: why
mandu: basically it's saying that we're in control of our own thoughts and we can change our lives whenever we want. its weird because i've always felt so stagnant
mittens: well i don't know much about you but i don't think you're stagnant. you're brave enough to come on this show and find love. thats a huge step that most people wouldn't dare to do. you have to give yourself more credit and celebrate the little wins more. life isn't about reaching the top, its about the journey.
mandu: but how can i enjoy the journey if i don't know where i'm going?
mittens: well a journey isn't supposed to be easy. thats one of the amazing parts about it you can try new things and learn more about yourself overtime. 
mittens: as cliche as it sounds i'd love to hear about the many stops on your journey 
mandu: oh..
mandu: i'd like that too
mandu: unless you pull out another blackpink joke then i'll pass
mittens: oh! so you like blackpink?


During the show: 
For the girls: She is searching for the guy she texted but she'd automatically think that anyone under 180cm or younger than her isn't her match. she is more passive, she expects the guys to make the move even if she likes them but she'd still be around them so they could notice her. she's more likely to stick with the one girl friend she hits it off with. if she likes someone she'd be jealous of other girls on the guy but won't say anything directly, instead she'd complain to a friend. when she's drunk she'd get more bold and thats how you'll truly know who she likes.
For the guys: he is interested in getting to know his match but that doesn't mean he'd ignore the others completely. he'd still interact with them and want to get to know them but won't flirt. if another girl flirts with him so be it, he'd go with the flow without crossing any boundaries. he's the friends with everyone kind of guy but will always try to include saehui in everything he does without being too obvious. if other guys are too extra and make her uncomfortable he'd step in to defend her or help her.

ending: its up to you
 
  x — Last Words.
comments. i think i. had a bit of word vomit so now i have no idea if she makes sense or not lol
scene requests. 

❤ she's shaving her legs in the bathroom and passes out because she cuts herself a little. it would be fun to see how they all react
❤ she gets drunk and dances a little too close to another guy and they kiss 
❤ Younggun cooking for everyone like all the time 
❤ younggun takes her to a romantic dinner date at his restaurant and cooks for her while shirtless with an apron lol
❤ younggun is too blunt about something (you choose) and makes saehui cry but later she realizes that he was right and appreciates his honesty

 
CREDITS TO ROAMING

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