when you're an infp

"Put yourself in their shoes," is something I usually put in my mind so I could at least try to understand what they would feel.

But then, what about MY shoes? They never tried it on.

And so I would make excuses for them. let them be, and let them treat me the same way so I could feel like . Then when I try to do the same things they do to me, I would feel guilty as hell because I know how that felt. Is there any way I can just stop FEELING?

HATE IT.

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Damia_Song123 #1 Nov 22, 2020 00:05:01

Hello. Just wanting to check on you. Hopefully you're doing alright & stay safe ^^

Damia_Song123 #2 Nov 18, 2020 08:29:55

My advice to you is to learn & put it deeply in mind Individuals are not same. Everyone is different including mindset & preferably ways treating others. That's why we met caring people that took care of others so well then also some people only care about themselves. It's the norm of life. We got hurt & sometimes people don't care. We find ease in some that truly understand us & believe me there are people understand you so find them. Even if it take lifetime you will find them :)

LayDZhang #3 Nov 18, 2020 05:39:04

A true kind person like you would understand if. I'm not what you call kind or a saint but I do feel that way sometimes. You care what other feels so you always try to put yourself in their situation but it's not the same for them. I've met kind people that disappoints me afterwards.