Celebrating my Aloneiversary

June 17. That's the day I broke up with my ex boyfriend. hit the fan. But I'm so ing proud of myself for making that decision and sticking with it finally. I tried to break up with him 2 (maybe 3?) times before but he always guilted me back. 7 more days and it'll be what I decided to call, my aloneiversary. 

I'll be celebrating it too. I can't ing wait honestly. I'll be getting my hair done, getting a back massage, a facial, going with some friends to see Wonder Woman, then heading to the bar. And my bestie Mike is going to be there. Which I'm ultra excited for. And my mom is making me a big bowl of pasta salad too. 

 

It may weird some people out but I see the breakup as an achievement, and considering the absuive I went through afterwards, I feel like I need to celebrate. I'm honestly so proud of my progress this past year. I *really* got my together. I've remained single this whole year, and I'll likely remain single for a while longer.  relationships.

 

I've made new friends, and holy they're amazing. I love them. And I wanna give a shout out to Mike. He's great. I've really progressed socially. I've gone on tons of dates since I broke up with the ex, turns out I'm pretty good at flirting with guys. Except this new guy I'm talking to, he's ing perplexing. But I don't want to get into that. I'm also not going to get into my life, just know that I'm really happy with it. 

 

I went to Los Angeles at the end of March. It was entirely a friend vacation. No family involvement. My first one really (as long as we don't count field trips). I had a great time. And since I'm making a lot more money I'll be doing a LOT more. I'm going to Atlantic City soon for a friend's birthday. Going to Six Flags next month. Might do a weekend in NYC, and I'm planning a weekend trip to Disney with friends for later in the summer. And likely another Atlantic City trip. Trying to go to NY Comic Con in October (not sure yet). And I'm going on a cruise in May. 

 

Point is, I'm really ing happy. I read through some of my old Blog posts on here, which is the reason I refuse to make a new account. , dude I'm not adjusting my life for other people. Besides I barely post on here anyways. I don't have upsetting I need to get off my chest anymore. Cause. Ya know...

 

I'm happy :D 

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Owlrose
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I felt myself liberated reading your post. I wish I could tag with you to tour all those places ><
Congratulations on achieving happiness. May you be happy for a long, long time. :)