anyone a bit too obsessed with their bias?

I'd like to start off with that I have never, ever, had a celebrity crush before. I remember in middle school girls would gawk over boybands like One Direction or good looking actors and I was just never interested. I never had a celebrity crush, but then Day6 debuted and oh my gosh, I fell so hard for Jae it honestly angers me so much how much I like him. Why am I angry? Because I know I have a better chance of winning the lottery, getting hit by a meteor, you guys get what I mean, but like I have this hopeless crush on him despite knowing I probably will never meet him or if I did I doubt it would be anything special than him meeting any other fan. I do not understand this and I don't know how to cope with this ;A; like I said I've never had a "celebrity" crush before and I always thought it was weird how people get crushes on those they've never met or don't know really but like asdfjkl; I guess this is just karma for me. Logically, I know this is just a stupid crush and will go away when I meet someone I actually click with and like, and I'm going to sound like a total fangirl (which fyi i hate rambling over my bias) but I sometimes imagine what it would be like dating my bias. Please don't judge me because I bet you guys have done that too once >~< It just suuuuuucks though because everytime I see his picture I smile or when he does something I just asdfjkl; I don't even know. Is this normal??? I know this definitely can't be healthy but what do you guys think? Have you had this before? It honestly feels like a disease I can't shake. I'm so gross I know

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cgao753 #1
ummmmmmm I KNOW HOW U FEEL??? it's honestly totally normal for fangirls to imagine themselves with their favorite celebrity and u talking about sweg chicken jae then XD i imagine he's got lots of fangirls just cuz of his hilarious and totally chill personality

and yea i think it's totally normal to freakout and squeal when u see ur ultimate bias like being adorable or being themselves or like anything?????? like seriously thooooo - just meeting my ultimate bias in person HOPEFULLY I DON'T DIE lol i may or may not have the chance too >_< i guess it depends on if i can go to their concert and even yanno high touch or something (but i'm possibly too cheap for that - i think i should start making money before i consider anything but then that'll take a long time esp b/c what if my favorite idols get too old >_< ugh now its just ranting)
koreaweab #2
YES I AM SO OBSESSED WITH JOSHUA AND SEUNGKWAN AND WONWOO AND HOSHI AND SEOKMIN AND MINGYU AND JUN AND MINGHAO AND VERNON AND WOOZI AND JEONGHAN AND S.COUPS AND DINO

For real tho, my obsession with Joshua is a bit much, so I know what you mean. I've had SO MANY celebrity crushes in the past, I can't count them on all of my fingers, but SVT I feel is so much more special to me than the last ones and it's really getting to me how much I devote to them. It's weird for me on some days, but JUST HELLA on others.
nerikook #3
I LOVE JUNGKOOK SOMUCH I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM WITH HIM AND WELL.. BASICALLY ALL OF BTS
JFarmer #4
I love DAY 6 too, particularly the maknae, I think his name is..Dowoon?

I think it's actually pretty normal. My bias..es Kim Taehyung and basically everyone from BTS and Chanyeol, are in my head so often.

I just set aside some time everyday for me to unleash my feels and fangirling.

I mean eventually I guess i will get over it, but there is not much I can do except listen to BTS songs over and over again and write fanfictions for my imagination...

Honestly I was never into boybands before Kpop, so i don't know if I am fangirling right or whatever.
-honne #5
you're not alone fam
chen does this to me on a daily basis
musicbeat #6
It's a phase. Before I scream whenever I see my bias on screen :). Don't worry you'll get over this love for Jae... fighting!
rawrebelsroot #7
happens to me often, i always imagine what it would be to date him and explodes when i see his pictures - trust me. shownu has recently showed more skin through his comeback and i go overly crazy. i also imagine how my life will be if i date him :)
i don't think it's not normal but nevermind, everyone have their own thoughts. xD
MissMinew #8
Yes, it's normal, haha. I have the same in a mild form, I never really went full-on fangirl (with extreme spazzing and "omg oppaaaaaaa") but the "what if I dated xx" is there. Of course it is. dont feel diseased or gross, there are probably millions of fangirls out there who go through the same. ^^
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