A Lie and Two Truths.
Description
Unrequited love has been depicted as noble, an unselfish and stoic willingness to accept suffering.
Except it doesn't feel noble when you experience Unrequited love.
But then again how do you know how you feel when all you know is that the person you love will never feel the same way?
People fall in love in mysterious ways.
You can't help it.
It just happens.
But what about when it's with the person you least expected it to be?
How can you expect life to revert back to the way it was?
"Do you know how stupid this makes me feel?" - Kim Jongin
"Why is it you?! why is it always you?!" - Oh Sehun
"How long have you been in love with one of them?" - Tao
"If the person you love can't see it. Then what makes you think they deserve it in the first place?" - Gongchan.
“How could I tell my one best friend that I’m in love with the other when I even hate admitting it to myself?” - Emma
"If I could go back. I'd make things better."
"It hurts... I-I can't breathe."
"Yeah well. Unrequited love with a dare for a first kiss. I’m all kinds of ed up"
"Me I fall in love with you every single day, I just wanna tell you I am".
Foreword
You can close your eyes from the things you don’t want to see but you can never close your heart from the things you don’t want to feel. And that’s a lesson in itself. One I never thought I would have to experience in my life.
I’m broken because I believed in a possibility. A chance that something so far-fetched could be real, I let myself fall freely and now I can never get up. I didn’t think it would hurt this much to love someone who could probably never love you back.
I know a lot of people would call my situation a certain name. ‘Friend Zoned’ but that’s not the case at all. I didn’t fall at the beginning of our friendship but gradually along the way I tripped and a flutter alighted in my heart. Sending sparks of electricity through my veins and into the tips of my fingers and to my toes.
I didn’t know it would be so painful. I was young and naïve. It has turned me into the coward I am today because I am too scared to tell the person I fell for that I fell. That I fell really hard. It’s not that I was friend zoned because that’s just a made-up word someone made so they wouldn’t feel as bad over someone not being attracted by them.
Everyone has the right to not be attracted to another person. It all starts with a flutter and sometimes the world is cruel enough to lock that flutter in a jar. Not allowing it to be with another flutter. Trapped in it’s own torturous state.
It’s like when I’ve spotted you in a crowded room, it’s only to see you searching for someone else that it burns me on the inside. That warmth of a flame that you made to light my heart up suddenly singes my lungs. It makes it hard for me to breath and I feel like crashing in a different kind of falling. I’m broken.
I miss someone who isn’t mine to miss. I dream about someone who isn’t mine to dream about and I love someone, who isn’t mine to love. It’s a terrible fate to have bestowed upon a person. And I can only watch from a far as he falls from my finger-tips. Until someone else catches his sight and lights his heart like he lit mine.
A part of me wants him to feel what I feel but the selfless side that loves him so much wants him to be happy. To never experience what I have with him because it’s not his fault. It’s really not.
Because love is blind. Whether you’re giving it or you’re receiving it. It makes you blind.
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