Lime's advice ⤵
I can tell how the two of you do seem to want to be with one another, but unless you both can work together to become more mature with the ways you deal with your conflicts, you'll continue to struggle on. I suggest for you to find methods to calm yourself down before attempting to negotiate peacefully about your problems; it seems like both of you are quite emotional and tend to explode quickly- this can be solved by trying to maintain a calmness while trying to solve the problem together. I really hope you and your partner can learn and grow together instead of hurting one another with your arguments. I wish you all the best.

Leo's advice ⤵
You both care for each other and I understand that arguments are apart of relationships but breaking up shouldn't always be the outcome of the quarrel. Breaking up means you no longer want to be with a person, and y'all want to be together so y'all should find another way to settle arguments rather than having to always break up because it will get to the point where one of y'all really gets fed up with all of that and just leaves for good. So talk to your partner and find a different way to settle y'all arguments without breaking up. Communication is key. Hope this helps.

Sabby's advice ⤵
Like Leo said above, I really do believe that communication is key. If you and your partner truly love each other, you guys will be able to talk about this situation with no problem, and you guys should be able to accept and understand each other's point of view as well. If things go well after talking, then try to take things a bit further and try to really get to know one another like your pet peeves, likes and dislikes that you never knew about before. If it doesn't go well, then I think you should give it some time and give your partner some space until you both have calmed down and are ready to talk to each other again. I hope this helped! ^^