What do you do if you really want to see or talk to someone but you can't for a number of reasons. Be it because their significant other doesn't like it, the popularity or priorities of the person, etc. I know and understand the struggles of both unfortunately. First of all, when I heard that my friend got told off by her bf that she was talking to me, I was appalled to why would he do that. He could've just straightened things out with me but to go and tell her off is just plain cowardice. I made it clear to her that I would keep my distance if he keeps this up. For a while it was quiet without talking to her, just tagging each other in meme posts. Apparantly it was also the same for her, recently she said she missed having heart to heart talks with me. As it turns out her bf resticted her contacts with her close friends, as a ploy to make her depend on him more than ever, is what I think. Flawed and narrow minded plan, guess he's just a greedy and obsessive bastard. I mean like who wouldnt be for their significant other, but to go as far as to restrict her contacts to her friends and even her female friends, that's just wrong. My intentions are pure and just, to be there when someone needs it, not to steal people from others. People leave me all the time, some with and without reasons. But if they came back asking for help, I would without hesitation. Bonds created are not easily severed; even if we havent talked in years. If I said to you once that "I'll always be there for you" I mean it, until my death bed.