Parents VS Biases ( A little rant)

If you are asked to choose between the two of them, whom will you pick?

This hater of me called me not a true friend because I choose my parents. She asked me if I were put in a very difficult situation. So..My mom, my bias, and I was dying. One of us had to sacrifice and save only one of the others. I would definitely be the volunteer, actually, I wouldn't let my mom or my bias be the volunteer. So...The only question left was: Who would I pick to be saved? Some people could choose their biases but for me, my parents are number 1 in my heart. I would probably regret-No, I would definitely feel regret if I hadn't chose my own parents. I could see and watch my biases because of my parents. If my mom didn't give birth to me, how could I possibly be in this world and see my biases? So..Yeah.

But other people may have different thought about this. I will respect whatever your answer of this question is. I understand that we can't always have a same way of thinking, so there are always the pros and cons. But can you please just don't bash them for their own thoughts? We can't force people to think and see just the way we think...They have their own. I just dislike when people bash other's thought if they didn't have the same thoughts. I was just like :WTF man??

You may also join this hater of me and call me a fake fan or whatever it is. I don't care.

Sorry for the ranting, I'm just so upset.

~janeloveexo~

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kissmeb2st #1 Jul 30, 2014 19:49:16

I'd choose my family, too. They've done much more things for me than biases have...

bteasuga #2 Jul 30, 2014 01:33:46

for me my family is number one.of course

keiEldiow #3 Jul 29, 2014 20:10:13

Psh! Family should always be first of course.

Flexujks #4 Jul 29, 2014 00:10:07

umm family ofcourse!!!!!! my mom <3

byacell #5 Jul 28, 2014 22:11:13

What the... they're fake child then. Like wth, how stupid they're.
Ofc family is number one, especially parents.
No matter how much you hate them, still they're more important than your precious biases.
You made the right decision. Don't mind them. Tsk tsk.

Lilbobaball #6 Jul 28, 2014 20:49:31

thats good ^^ afterall your parents did provide you basically everything and they ruv you the most so yeah

lucidhoney10 #7 Jul 28, 2014 14:47:25

You've made the right decision by choosing your parents. If there's a people who choose biases more than their parents, then there's maybe something wrong with their life. I won't judge them as a heartless or whatsoever. Everyone were born to be different. So, it's nature to have a pro and contra as lives go on.
But, if they could call you a fake fan just because you choose your parents over your biases, then you could also label them as a fake child because they choose 'someone who barely know them' a.k.a their biases instead of their parents.

All in all, let them said all they want. Only mind them when what they said is a critics to change you to a better person. If their bashing you over something childish like this, then just let it slide. Pretend like you heard nothing from their mouth. Life is too short to hate someone's back ;)

FullmetalTitan #8 Jul 28, 2014 10:41:45

That doesn't make you an 'untrue fan' in the slightest it just shows you care about your family which is a good thing ^^ Sure I love my biases to but family is most important first and formost: You have a different opinion so she should respect that it's really not that hard to accept other people's thoughts we're not always going to agree on the same thing.

And I'm sure if she were to ask her bias that question he/she'd say the same thing to.

awesomehoney #9 Jul 28, 2014 10:12:46

Family is the most important people in your life, and I wouldn't hesitate to choose family over oppas. Not choosing biases over family doesn't mean you're a fake fan :) If that's it, then millions of ppl are fake fans.

emyuki #10 Jul 28, 2014 09:34:16

Agree with you.
My parent is always number 1 no matter what. Although sometimes they will scold of me bcz I pay attention too much to my biases, but I do love them more than mu biases.
And yeah, I dont get it why some people bash other people who have different opion.

HopesAiren #11 Jul 28, 2014 09:17:36

of course the parents, my whole family above any star. He has a family he would put above his fandom. and I have my family I put above my bias

Dark50 #12 Jul 28, 2014 09:14:37

shes stupid. ungrateful. no loyality in herself. those type of people will never have real frenz and so on

viweivi #13 Jul 28, 2014 08:53:10

Haha I like your thoughts. It's really mature, unlike that hater of your

I'm not sure who I'll choose in this situation haha, because I'm a indecisive person (I'm Libra), so I'll probably choose none haha

And it seems like you like Pink a lot bcause I notice that every time you write a blog, the font color is Pink haha

peoples #14 Jul 28, 2014 08:50:27

I don't understand fans like that. They choose their bias who don't know of their existence over their parents who gave birth to them and love them whole-heartedly, then they go and insult other fans who aren't as crazy and extreme as they are. DAMN I HATE PEOPLE LIKE THAT!