Heartless?

So my mom told me something today that really made me think. She said I don't have any emotions and I barely show any affections. She was like, "Bey, you're really smart, but you have no emotions." Then I was like, "What do you mean?" She just replied saying, "You barely show your emotions to anyone." Like I know you guys don't know me personally, but any advices? I'm just really concerned. I don't know. I feel like I show enough emotions. I'm not that heartless. It's just that I kinda have a poker face and I'm really blank at times to notice the things that are going on in my life. I'm really not heartless! But what can I do to fix this? My mom even said that me being like this is the reason why I still don't have a boyfriend. Wow! Makes me sound like a scary person. huh? But I don't know. I'm just not good at expresing myself. I don't show emotions especially sadness. I hate crying. I haven't cried in a very long time. Is my heart made out of stones? HELP.

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heheimevil
#1
I dont know what you should do... maybe smile?
well i hate crying as well and when i do cry it's like 6-18 months after the last time i cried and it like my face is raining.
ohbluewind
#2
Well how about if you see your reflection, and then talking to it. Sounds crazy enough B, but at least you will know how your facial expression and your voice tone at least.

P.S your mom said you are a smart person. And you should know that smart person tend to do so. So all you have to do is smile with your heart :)
kpopluvr27 #3
I don't really know. I mean, I'm the opposite of you, I guess? I show my emotions way too much! Like I'm one of those 'heart on your sleeve' type of people. Kind of in the way that I'm not afraid to cry. I think crying is another way to let it all out. Crying actually makes me feel a bit better.

I think just because you don't show your emotions, doesn't mean that you're heartless! Don't worry. All you have to do is be your flippin' self! Just be you; definitely there will be some guy that will like you like that! It's okay to hide some of your emotions, but at least you're not some monotone weird person...at least, I don't think you are!

Talking to the you online, I think you're great! You're nice and have a great sense of humor. I don't know if this is the type of person that you show to the outside world. Like for me: I am way more confident online, then actually at school. At school, other kids think that I'm the sweet innocent type? They couldn't be farther from the truth! They don't know I read and write ! But it's not like I'm going to tell them that anytime soon! XD

I think that you're fine just the way you are! :D
Jongininie
#4
I don't see anything wrong with you. Everyone shows their emotion in different ways..
As long as it's not you hiding from your own feelings then you can just be yourself :)
Kimchiebae
#5
You're not heartless Bae! If you're heartless maybe you would'nt be fangirling over Exo or other groups. It does'nt mean if you don't have a relationship status you don't have any feelings. Maybe you're not good in showing your emotions. Are you shy? Hmm, maybe. But you're not heartless arachi?
kimsfangirl #6
I am also known as the emotionless person...maybe the most emotionless girl in school..
I dont want to be emotionless but..the problem is.. i think I have enough expression.
And..I also hate crying(it is the least emotion I want to show to people)
I have tried to have and to show my emotion, but ended up the same..
So I guess.. it is simply just my personality, and I feel better when I am being myself^^
I think you should just be yourself.. :D
You are one of my fav. Authors here and that Is because you are being yourself .)
lovedream_yg
#7
But because we are exotics...only exotics understand exotics..
lovedream_yg
#8
No....but if u wan to cry...just watch some sad movies...Im expressionless too n I just can't express myself well....even when my mum scold me...I just keep my poker face...so I guess u just try to smile...u know tat forceful smile....;) I tell u one thing...most of the exotics are like this because influence by sehun....
viweivi
#9
I hate crying too
But crying is my way to relax lol
byacell
#10
Haha you sounds look like me. I can understand that.

Just be yourself, authornim! fighting ^^
sitinurfarisyah #11
Just be yourself , maybe you don't want to cry because you don't want people to look at you like a weak person maybe ? ^^v *be yourself, I still love you :)
Diamondkai88 #12
Naww..just be yourself. I'm mostly poker face myself during highschool, university. And now that i'm working and studying too, my mom said I've changed. Becoming more lively and cheerful and expressable person. Time changes people for better :) and also..i have a lot of heart to heart talk with my mom and besties regarding a lot of stuff, including boys too. so i guess that kinda helps? keke..my personal experiences :)
ihavepetaliens
#13
I'm like that too. I don't show many emotions or much of myself but it doesn't mean i don't have emotions or don't care. No I don't think your heart is made out of stones, you are just stronger then most people. i mean you should only cry when you really have too. And honestly I don't think a boy would care if you don't show your emotions as long as you tell him how you feel(advice coming from an always been single not ready to mingle person). But if you want to show emotion smile some more (but don't be a Chanyeol, you'll scare humans away.) Show your emotion in your actions. It doesn't always have to be shown on your face.
Rice_Bunny
#14
Lol I completely understand. Just like me and not only my mother every person around me even those ones I'm still getting to know
taoziwushumaster #15
ya ur not heartless, I've known u for like 4 years now, we're twin and if u were heartless then you wouldn't have given me good advice and u wouldn't have listen to me, if u were heartless u would've been like f this and f that, and we probably wouldn't be friends. ah and as for u not having a bf yet, its cuz guys r blind to see an amazing dongsaeng like u, and THERE R NO CUTE GUYS IN OUR SCHOOL BEA! but you'll find the one, I promice, u just gotta be patient, but yea ik u, and u r not patient.