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Leave now if you're:

1. Against any uality that isn't straight.

2. Judgemental.

Ok, onto the topic:

Not many people know this, but, I question my uality, specifically if I am biual or not. I have some reasons:

1. I sometimes (but rarely) get y when girls have ty clothes on (don't judge me!)

2. I've not had my first kiss and have wondered what it's like to kiss both male and female.

3. I imagined kissing a girl and wasn't at all surprised or alarmed or shocked.

4. I find some girls attractive and if a girl is pretty enough, I odn't call her "hot", but "attractive" instead.

But, I can't imagine have it with a girl. And I know I've always liked guys.

So, what am I? Biual or straight? Or maybe bi-curious? And please, no troll answers. This is a serious matter and I need help because it's been bugging me lately.

And if I turn out to not be straight, how would I come out to my friends? I would NEVER wanna come out to parents or any other family. At least not till I leave home.

So, please help!

I feel others may judge me, how do I not give a damn? ;(

~Iloveanime~

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ihavenofriends2920 #1 Dec 30, 2013 19:52:02

I'm definatly sure you are straight
Take an example of Light Imagay oops I mean Yagami, America, Italy etc
even though these characters are not real you still love right?
And then there is also Kwangmin which you also love, But even if you still think
your gay, lesbian, straight what ever
Most people will still accept you as a friend like me =D

IcyWish #2 Dec 12, 2013 06:18:12

Okay, well... eep, I'm not sure how to help o.o (check ur replies)
Uhm, bi-curious? Perhaps? Or maybe you've confused yourself and are actually straight.
Yeah, maybe that. I think you might (might, just idk, Im assuming, ok?) have maybe looked too deeply into it all, thus the questioning of yourself.
I'm sorry if this is confusing you @.@;, I'm a confusing person myself, so if you don't understand me, my bad.

And your friends will accept you ^.^

informantxgirl #3 Dec 11, 2013 08:44:22

There are many shades to uality, and if you don't want to, don't think you have to label yourself. Explore and be happy as you do it (safely and sanely). Don't worry about coming out to anyone yet, just make sure you're content with who you are first. You're the most important person in this equation. My ex-boyfriend dated both guys and girls, so others might say he's biual, but he didn't like that label and almost never used it, and I respected that because he knew who he was and he knew he was not under that 'umbrella', if you will. If anyone asked, he just said he liked all people equally, and that made him happy.

KatyMikayla #4 Dec 11, 2013 08:38:43

You might be bi-curious. I really don't have any advice oj how to come out to your parents since I'm straight as a lamp pole, but you should do it on a very.... Like gentle way. Ease up the subject or drop subtle hints along the way