Dear people who post hate/bash others

Does it really make you feel good when you ruined someone's day?

Does it really make you feel proud when you make someone cry?

Does it really make you feel like nice when at the end of the day you succeeded in making someone's life miserable?

 

To me, this is unacceptable behavior. 

First of all, who died and made you king? Are you really that much better than the rest of us that you can call people, and I quote "pitiful," "spoiled brat(s)" and ""? 

I'm sorry, but I think I missed the memo there.

You're not better than everyone else. In fact, with that you just wrote, you've proven yourself to be less worthy than the rest of us. This just shows that you're not mature enough to handle the situation in a diplomatically. 

Oh and by the way, adding little emoticons next to your rude comments like "This is just pitiful ^^" just makes you sound more like an than you already are.

 

Not everyone is as strong as others. If you call me , I'll just blow you off because I know I'm not . If you call me an awful writer, fine. You're entitled to your opinion. I really don't give a damn. My self-esteem is way to high to be blow off by people who I'll most likely never meet on the Internet.

But there are others who are fragile, who won't be able to handle all this hate. I've already had one friend deactivate due to the amount of hate she received. I don't want to lose another. 

 

So can you tell me, why is spreading hate and bashing so appealing to you? I understand the principle of schadenfreude, but please, enlighten me on why making someone cry makes you feel so good about yourself?

Honesty, I really feel bad for bullies/people who bash on others just for the heck of it. On the inside, they're just insecure people who need to hurt others to feel the power.

 

You know, I've seen more drama on AFF than all the drama I've ever experienced in my life combined. 

Maybe it's just me, but I'm sick of seeing people get hurt.

 

Sorry if this is all just sounds like bleh. It's midnight... and I need to go to bed before I pass out.

Bye bye. And that was my "civilized" rant of the week...

 

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exo-m4life_xo
#1
I agree with you author-nim. They don't even know the person that they just hated on. My friend was going through a really hard time in her family and she used a different fanfic website as basically an outlet. When someone hated on her writing, she'd start crying and it was really depressing. PLEASE STOP HATING, EVERYONE!!!
Kpopobsessed626
#2
I agree with everything you stated in this post. Bullying is wrong in general and shouldn't be done by people to feel better about themselves. Never become a bully because that's the wrong path in life to take.
ChaoticDarkAngel
#3
This is true. I mean I know if you post a story on the internet it's there for everyone to see/read but still that is NOT an excuse for someone to be a total _______ and ruin that person. I have low self esteem so sometimes I do cry a little if I get a hateful comment on a story...well maybe not cry, but I do feel disheartened definitley.

People need to put themselves in other people's shoes. What if that fanfic writer they bashed is having a tough time in real life? What if that person uses fanfiction as an escape from the troubles they're facing in the real world? I wish some people on the internet would think before they type. What you put on the internet, those hate filled comments are there forever and even if you delete them people still remember them.
aznawzmao
#4
It's amazing how people think they're invisible on the internet. Even if you haven't given your real name, I bet there are still ways to hunt you down. We could pretend that every single interaction on here was created by computers, but what would be the fun and significance in that?
jjangah
#5
The competition in AFF has gone waaaay too out of hand. I, personally, write only for the fun and joy if it and because I actually WANT to. But lately the drama, fights, and competition (that are all useless, by the way) have gone out of control and it's just not the same site AFF used to be.
-expectation
#6
I myself have received LOTS of hate.
backstabbing, frontstabbing you name it.
getting called _____. wtf. I'm not cheap. Neither am I am fcking ____. and wtf... seriously.
and it's like, wow. i receive hate on a daily basis it's kinda normal now. and... well.. let's just say i'm on war with my classmates.
class wars everywhere.
Ideal_Realist
#7
LOL too busy ranting didn't double check the spelling! But why the sudden outburst? Did something happen?
MintyPetals
#8
Have you gotten hurt? Don't worry, I have a knife, I can stab whoever hurt you :D
...that sounds terrible omfg
I agree. Myself, I haven't recieved anything that can really be classified as hate but it upsets me when I see others being hated on. people are just so pathetic nowadays.
Crys_Marie2oo5
#9
Wow...what brought this on? Care to share with me?
TOPKpopfan #10
I understand, its really frustrating to see people like this