UNFORGIVING

UNFORGIVING

I have just finished watching Yoochun's and DalHee's Miss Ripley. After watching the end, it made me feel so conflicted.

I loved the drama, it had everything I want in a Melodrama. I cried buckets full of tears, It made me seeth in anger and frustration a dozen times, and made me smile a couple of time at the cute. In melodrama's I always wish for a happy ending, cause I don't think life is like all TV drama's with such hard melodrama from start to end. I want a happy ending with a pognant happily ever after in my melodrama. 

But in Miss Ripley, I didn't want it. I hated the ending. It made me me want to throw a chair in our computer. I didn't hate everything about the ending, there was just this one little part in that ENDING that got to me. HATE would be a mild word to describe how I feel for that part. I am talking about the ending where Miri (Lee Dalhae) was able to be smile and forgive her mom. That is the is eating at me inside out. I thank God, my MOM is the best MOM in the world!

I have always thought that I am a very nice and good person but after my thorough anger with that ending I realized I am not as good a person as I think I am. And i somehow felt bad about that. My friends has always said that among us, I was the most mild natured. I don't get angry easily. I go with the flow and I usually forget all things bad. but the ending of Miss Ripley made me thing otherwise. 

Anyway going back to the ropic, let me just say that "I could never do that." I don't think I have any bone in my body willing to forgive a mother that would ever abandon her child so she can live a happy and rich life, forgiveness..? 

That isn't in the menu.

So anyway, let me ask you guys for your opinion. 

Do you think being UNFORGIVING in situations like this is the WORST thing...?

Or do you think I am such a BAD PERSON to be able be thing unforgiving...?

Or is it just natural to feel this way...?

Anyway what instances can you guys think where you will be UNFORGIVING..?

 

 

 

 

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Yukie23 #1
The worst punishment for someone is not to ask for forgiveness. If forgiveness is not given, like kpopartory said, things cannot start anew. You are not necessarily taking away someone's second chance, you are letting them know that there isn't one. I think that many times, people live believing that they'll have a second chance and sometimes, it's completely fine if there isn't one. That is the harshest lesson a person can learn, but overall, it will help a person to grow. <br />
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This is a big conflict you're talking about here though. If it were an argument that doesn't necessarily insult you in a huge way and that'll you know you'll get over, it would be extremely rude to ignore someone when they apologize. The same happened to me with a person I was closed to. I'm known for cracking extremely sarcastic jokes and this person had known me already for four years. Either way she got offended, and refused to hear my apologies despite the fact that I felt I did nothing wrong. Like forgiveness can often only be given one time, an apology can only be given one time. It's one thing to ask for an apology, another to drag yourself on the ground after a person that clearly does not understand you. <br />
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Just my little grain of sand, hope it doesn't offend. But, I do agree with you about the situation you were speaking of ^^. It's tricky, because you can come of as the bad person by not forgiving someone or as a total idiot because you did forgive them.
Ntxhee #2
It's natural to feel like that. :)<br />
I understand how you feel; you feel the injustice of the mom has done towards the daughter and then, all of a sudden, the daughter forgives her. As kpopartory said,"Forgiving, is giving someone a second chance, it is up to them, what they will do, after they are forgiven." <br />
That's what I think. ^^
kpopartory #3
Forgiving, is giving someone a second chance, it is up to them, what they will do, after they are forgiven. <br />
I have forgiven, and, the best part is that, each one of them, have made a turn for the best. <br />
Right now, though, I am frowning inside, at someone, and I am almost at my ropes end, I am still being patient, hoping he will change.
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