I need to rant about fandoms

Hi, hello, this is a rant about kpop fandoms. 

I watched this video on youtube called "roasting your fandom" or smth like that. It was fine, it was in good fun - I don't care. Shinee World wasn't mentioned per se, which is honestly what this entire rant is about. 

 

Not that Shinee World wasn't mentioned because I don't care, I bet there are a lot of things wrong with Shinee World (I've heard plenty of after Jonghyun's passing, bless him), but the fact that they (we) were lumped together with literally every other fandom in "2nd gen fandom". Because there is no such thing. 

I KNOW that there are annoying fans out there of older groups, who speak of "the good old days" and who is (I haven't seen it personally but I keep far far far away from stan twitter) hating younger groups. 

 

But I am tired of the generalization. I am even more tired of the stupid arguments/comments about how "X 3rd gen GROUP will never lose its popularity because their fans will grow with them and stay but 2nd gen groups are completely irrelevant and fans of those just have to accept it." 

DUDE, you're literally saying exactly the same thing 2nd gen fandoms are trying to say ; "We love our groups and we do not want to let them fade into obscurity because we're still here". 

And nobody likes being told their faves, groups they fell in love with, groups who helped them grow, are irrelevant because they have been in the industry for longer. It's like - why do you think you can say such things and not expect people to argue back?

It's the same argument that people use ; "I only said your group was a flop, but then you retaliated and now I'm the victim, look at what YOU did!"

 

??????????? 

L O G I C  P E O P L E

Where did it go?

 

Stop trying to demonize groups or their fandoms in generalizations.

If you have trouble with a fandom, name them. N A M E  T H E M like you would any other 3rd gen fandom or 4th gen fandom. 

 

I am sick of being a "2nd gen fan", a "boomer of the kpop industry" and "apparently hating on all the new groups" just because I got into kpop before EXO and BTS. 

 

And yes, this is a rant. I am old. But internet arguments are ridiculous sometimes and I get tired too. 

 

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And stay safe everybody! COVID-19 is no fun, so take care of yourself. But remember, a little fresh air is GOOD for your mental health as well. Staying cooped up inside is not. If you have a balcony or a private backyard, go there for a couple of minutes to hours a day. If not, remember to open your windows and air out your home. This virus is not airborne. <3

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pikakaehimesama
#1
Honestly, some fandoms have driven me out liking a group completely. As someone who is on Kpop stan twitter (mostly lurking) I see a lot of drama so many people create and it's so unnecessary. if you don't like a group, just move on with your life and get over it. If you like a group, great, don't drag others down while you bring your group up.

Honestly, its really annoying bc international fans are always saying that Korean fans are terrible for treating the idols like garbage and saying mean things about them on social media, but then there's stan twitter.

Also stay safe too! COVID-19 is really bad everywhere in the world right now :(
KaihleeLo
#2
So ing true. Like wtf is 2nd gen stan when I legit love nearly every K-pop group from the older generation to the latest! A while ago, I was part of a Facebook 'discussion' and someone kept saying that if I want to stan 2nd gen then I should just stan 2nd gen and avoid talking about the 3rd gen (wtf?). And she/he said all of that because I was 'defending' SHINee against her fave group when she was the one who was rude about everything to everyone. It was ridiculous. What's more ridiculous is that I allowed this person's hateful comments to drive me out of the fandom she was a part of. I loathe the words '1st gen fan', '2nd gen fan', '3rd gen fan', etc because there's a reason why people consider themselves K-POP fans! We're in it for the music and are open to new sounds from different groups AT ALL TIMES. And just because I stan a 2nd gen group doesn't make me a 2nd gen fan-only. Jesus.

Sorry for the rant haha. Point is, I can relate to where you're coming. Just because we got into Kpop first, it doesn't automatically mean we're arrogant. And yes, I hate when people generalize. Stop with that shiettttt
brithistorian
#3
Well said!
DingKey
#4
Why so true! Agreed 100%