You knock on the door to the hotel room, praying that this was the right place.  Every other member agreed that this was where he was staying for now.  They told you that he wanted to be alone while all this was going on, but there was no way you were just sitting still.

Once you heard the news, you were on the first flight to China to be there for him.  You didn’t know what you were going to do exactly, but you know you had to be there.  If he didn’t want to talk, at least you could be a supporting shoulder if he needed one.