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Okay, now that we've got that thing sorted, I'll give a little update on my holiday.

We went to Korea for 3 days and then stopped by Bali for a night before returning to Australia. Sorry I couldn't give notice since it was all so rushed and was a surprise. I literally got home and found our luggage on the doorstep with only a few hours to prepare and for the news to sink in before we were off to the airport.

Here's Jimin and I in Korea and pictures of our resort in Bali [Jae's that little head bobbing in the water...].

I groomed the babies today and was a little bored so I decided to shoot them. Jiji hated being bathed and groomed so he hid in the bathroom, hahaha.

Yep, okay. So that's my holiday in a nutshell. Now I've got a problem and was wondering if you guys know how to handle it...

I've applied to study Medicine at Jae's university. I never really decided what to do when I graduated high school, and since I've just realised that this is what I wanted, I'm transferring as a graduate entry med student. I'm 95% sure I'll get in since my GPA and GAMSAT marks will ensure me a position.

However, Jimin also wants to do Medicine next year (since she graduated this year and is sitting her entrance exams in a week or so) and it's likely that she may have to move interstate to do the maxilofacial course as only one Uni offers it.

Should I apply at Jae's Uni (which is still in Sydney) or at Jimin's prospective Uni (which is interstate in Adelaide). Jae thinks that I don't trust her to live by herself (which I admit, I kinda don't) and that I should let her learn to be independent just like I did when I was sixteen. Jimin would rather I move with her but thinks that I shouldn't because then I'll be living apart from Jae and it's hard to maintain long distance relationships. I don't want to leave either of them alone and am giving myself an aneurysm just thinking about it.

I mean, she's only seventeen and sure, that's older than I was when I left, but then I don't want her to go through what I did. Plus, she also has to keep up with International student Uni fees (since she's a resident, not a citizen) as well as housing, food etc so it'll probably be harder for her than it was for me. But then I also don't want to leave Jae because... well, it's pretty obvious why I don't want to. In addition to all that, I don't want to leave the dogs either TT^TT.

Jae doesn't want me to go and says that he can support Jimin, Jimin wants me to go but thinks I should stay, I'm not sure what's happening but right now, they're both kinda mad at me and Jae's being a little b*tch acting very childish and refuses to sleep on the bed. He's camping out on the couch and has to curl up since it's too short for him (which he kinda deserves -.-)

So do you have any suggestions as to what I should do? We've even considered getting Jimin to do her Med course at Jae's Uni with me and then transferring to Adelaide to do her Dent. and Maxilo. course after six years but that's a lot of hassle.