Forced Marriage & Arranged Marriage

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An ‘arranged marriage’ is a marriage set up by family members. An arranged marriage is not a forced marriage if both partners are over 18 when they get married and they can choose whether or not to participate. An arranged marriage is a forced marriage if either partner is unable or unwilling to give permission.  

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Kebanyakkan orang selalu fikir yang genre forced marriage & arranged marriage ni adalh bnde yg sama. Technically they are, but from the statement above, ianya tak sama langsung.

Arranged marriage - Your parents decides to marry you to one of their friend's son/daughter. You CAN choose whether you WANT to marry the person or DECLINE it. You have a choice in an arranged marriage.

Forced marriage - Your parents decides to marry you to one of their friend's son/daughter because you've done something (like getting pregnant from their friend's son, kena tangkap basah, caught in a scandal & nama keluarga terancam kalau x cover cepat2 atau apa2 je yg melibatkan maruah). You have NO choice but to marry that person because if not, you and your whole family will be in trouble or nama keluarga akan rosak.

So there, after this hopefully some of you x samakn kedua genre tu. Its totally different.

 

23/11/2015

 

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taeliaa #1
Chapter 1: i fREAKING KNOW RIGHT!!! whats wrong with using "cliche" plotline, asalkan pandai nak olah apa semua ok ah. nyampah gila tengok writer yg kononnya bagus cerita tak cliche apa semua bc liESSSSSSS almost semua story kat malay tag ni sama je. its just depends on the writer to make the story interesting
starlightkim_ #2
Chapter 5: Ya..betul tu our story..ialah hak kita..dan kita adalah author dan boss..so kita boleh update sesuka hatikan??saya pulak ikut je otak saya dan masa...kalau ada idea dan masa..pasti saya akan update...so i choose randomly..
PinkBlossom_97 #3
Chapter 5: Yeayh! I decided to update randomly!
Yeah as an author and the story owner, we shouldnt give a crap to things you mentioned above like unsubcriber tu semua. We have the ideas, we write, we post, we can update whenever we want.

I was confused and feeling uneasy back then bcs I am freaking busy and there's no time to update and actually, most of the time I barely touch the laptop/pc so how can I update regularly? Huhu. But after reading this chap, I feel much relaxed and the uneasy feeling faded away thanks to you, authornim. I appreciate your tips. Gomapseumnida *bows*
PinkBlossom_97 #4
Chapter 3: I agree much with most of your tips. But I cant be sure if my English can be improved, not that I wont try to improve it. I AM trying as much as I can to the point where everytime I've finished writing each chap, I'd be checking here and there for grammar and sentence structure. Haha
I prefer BriE than AmE (but it depends on my mood jugak) but I always got confused and in the end, I use both UK and US words in a chap. And to be frank, I dont give a about whether the readers get confused by it or not. As long as it gives the same meaning aside from the spelling and they understand the whole story, it's perfectly fine, at least to me. Hehe
starlightkim_ #5
Chapter 3: Okey..thanks for the information..
fourteenone #6
Chapter 2: is it okay to use both UK and US words in a sentence?
mpreggoland #7
Chapter 1: yeah! i'm agree with you! *thumbs up*
HeavenDelight #8
Chapter 1: wahhh...i`m agree with you. For example,ramai org cakap cite the heirs tu klise tp cite tu bapak femes kot.
starlightkim_ #9
Chapter 1: Hmm..saya sokong..200°/°……jangan marah ^^
nerd_91 #10
Chapter 1: garangnya diknon~XDD
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