Relationships?

So recently I got a boyfriend?

But we aren't official? Or are we? 

So anyways, today my friend forced me to sit next to him. Obviously he didn't mind and we held hands and what not. 

But my friends were making these ist jokes and saying that we should "hurry up" or "it's just a finger" also "just give head already!" 

Honestly, me and him we're irritated by this. 

We decided to keep on the down low, though we were already doing it.

And we decided to deny the rumours for privacy reasons. 

Is that alright?

I mean like, I don't mind keeping it to ourselves.

But what if someone comes and things up?

Our friends are total tards and idiots, and they like teasing us. 

We're both victims of their teasing and what not

So idk guys

What should I do?

I like the idea of keeping it on the down low

But at the same time I want people to know he's mine 

Like do those cute idk 

This is my first relationship so I don't want to rush things or things over.

Any advice?

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FellowEXOtic #1
Aw, Lee, you're so cute~!
In terms of your relationship though, it really is up to the two of you if you want to keep your relationship "secret" (as in not telling anyone) or saying something about it. There is nothing wrong with keeping it private, but do know that if you start doing PDA, then people will notice. That's probably why your friends started teasing you two about holding hands earlier. In my opinion, I would ask them to stop, but since I don't know them personally, I don't think you could apply that there.
Since this is your first relationship, I know that it can be scary as heck, but you also have to remember that first relationships are supposed to be fun and a great experience (though I can't say that for everyone). If anything, yeah, keep things on a private level if you think that that is what the two of you want. However, if you do not say anything about it and start to do cute things, people will notice and may start talking. If you want to make it known, it doesn't have to be some huge thing. An Instagram post with 'With the Bae' or something could work. In the end, it isn't any one else business unless you want to talk about it. Just let things come and go as they do and enjoy the moments you will have with whoever this lucky guy is.
Not too sure if this helped or not, but just know that the decisions are completely up to you and him. I'm just stating what I think :) Have a great night, Lee! Don't stress too much. See and talk to you later.
NamiErza #2
best thing to do is obviously ignore them big time and you guys focus on yourselves sound better right?
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