"To be honest, before I delivered this news, there were times that I had to withstand alone as I felt conflicted with the thought of my own decision while thinking of everyone whom I've walked this path with up until now. Rather than it being a fear about the decision I've made, I was more worried about whether everyone that I'm thankful towards would become too shocked or hurt by this news, as it is a situation that they've never gone through before [as a fan]. Although I'm a bit late, I'm gathering the courage to deliver the news myself from all the love and trust you've given me.

I want to say how much I love and feel sincerely thankful towards everyone who has stood by my side like a shadow and watched me grow and cheered me on."

This is the blog written by Min himself.  If you are Min-bias, you would know how much secretive and  closed he is towards his personal life. And he wanted to give you this news himself, and so he did..

So why the hate? Why bash him? Because he’s getting married or because he didn’t tell the news earlier? Or Because he’s not marrying you or Kyuhyun.. Guys he don’t own us anything.  He’s human first an idol later. He has worked hard for all these years. He deserves to be happy…

And about members not agree with him. According to the LIVSM fansite master who talked to his mother  "Sungmin's determinance on this, even his parents, members and company couldn't block his way. At first, everyone didn't approve, but talked again and again with parents, members and company, slowly changing their opinions. Now, everyone respects his decision." and do u think if members were opposing his decision, he'll do the same?!  And ofc, they all knew the consequences of marriage being an active idol!!

And think twice before saying him coward & betrayer (Really!!). He is brave that’s why he decided to take this step!! Idols always wary of dating publicly let alone marry bcoz they think fans will oppose it!! Knowing so, he decided to marry bcoz he believes that ELFs n especially VitaMins will support him..

and to all the people saying that we should forgot about winning GDA.  Really guys. Our album sales are already low,  we are on 4^th/5^th in annual charts and nowhere respectable place in digitals. So why are you blaming on him?!  Please find a valid reason for which Sungmin's oncoming marriage would affect promotions and damage SuJu. It’ll effect only when ELFs will not support him. So do you want Suju to suffer bcoz you can’t accept Min’s marriage?!?

and He's human too just like us.. To err is human. And he can make mistakes too just ike us.. And its human nature to get hurt n disappoint.. But is it okay to kick someone out from the group just like that?! Lets put aside all the hatred, even if you are disappointed with Lee Sungmin, take some time to heal, but please keep supporting Super Junior Sungmin who gives you happiness and whom you once loved (hope you still love him).

In the end I just wanted to say We are ELFs, EVER LASTING FRIENDS, who promised to stay with them forever no matter what happens...  Didn’t we promise that “We will betray the world if world betrays SuJu” where did all those promise go?

and if you are Ming-biased, you should be proud of your bias for Such courage. Such strength of character in front of overwhelming odds. So proud of him :)