Marriage, fans, ELFs, Sungmin...

First of all Heartily Congratulations to Sungmin oppa.. Hope u have a wonderful and amazing marriage life :)

 

this is truly amazing... being an idol, getting married is so tough considering you are the member of the world famous boy band.. but Kudos to you for showing this encouragement..  I’m so happy for him that he has found a person to love and with whom he wanna spend his life… ^^

But to see all the hate and negativity….. it hurts… why?! Just because he’s happy!! Don’t we say we are E.L.F – Ever Lasting Friends.. so being friends why are you not gonna support him?! I didn’t know that friends bash and leave when one’s going to marry?! And don’t say about Sungmin not telling the news earlier.. Being a public figure is tough and its more hard when lots of people eyes on you, analyzing their  each n every moment. And I do hope all of Ming fans do know how secretive and sensitive he is!! And I still don’t understand the comments, “ Its so sad, I’m bawling my eyes” Why are so sad?! Does being married means he’s not gonna be that Sungmin oppa anymore!! He’ll the same cute, manly, Super Junior Sungmin guys. Your support do matters to him..

My bias in SuJu is Kyu. And I’m so waiting for the time when he’s gonna date n then marry (Hope it happens soon!!).  I’ll be happy that my oppa found someone who makes him laugh, who’ll be there to lend a shoulder, and will support him through thick n thin.

I hope all fans of Super Junior, ELFs and Vitamins will be supportive of Sungmin oppa and wish him happiness.. 

 

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tulip1 #1
Same thoughts I had .. I mean he's is still human being .. We all seek love and hope to find our soulmates..
They will have the cutest kids ever!!!
FullmetalTitan
#2
You know, I know many fans are 'affected' by this in a negative way...but this should be a happy occasion in my opinion ^^ Sungmin's not going to forget about SuJu just because he's getting married or anything, he'll still spend time with them after all. Like with Sunye of Wonder Girls. She got unneeded backlash for her marriage, but why? Idols are just like us.

They fall in love.

They may want to have a child someday.

Those are normal feelings to have.

Sungmin doesn't owe his fans anything. If my bias got married, I'd still be happy for him and show my support ^^ That's what a fan means.

They're no better than a sasaeng when they start bullying and bashing his future wife as they're doing. Again, I know fans don't feel the way you and I do about this and I'm not expecting or demanding them to.

But show some respect at least to the person they say they admire and love. That's all I'll say.
flurries
#3
You might not see it but Subgmin did things that hurt K-ELF. International fans don't know about it because after all that Sungmin had done, K-ELF still wants to protect him. I was like ypu, too. I thought, why are they all hating? Then the truth was presented right before me. :( It broke my heart.
gaemaker
#4
I think the same way!! In fact i want all our boys get married n stay the same suju forever with us!' we are elf for them!! Not some selfish fans