seriously, i need your help guys.. im falling for my girlfriend's bestfriend :( (real life)

Seriously, i dont know what to do anymore guys, i think im falling for my girlfriend's bestfriend....

 

I know its wrong... This is si wrong, i courted her, and not her bestfriend....

 

But when we started dating, heck .. I realized that she is not what I thought.. I felt neglected. :( shes not sweet, she doesnt care..

 

BUT HELL! Her best friend.. :( she is the one who cared forme, she goes all touchy in public, wiping my sweats, giving me lunch,... And stuffs like that.

 

 

And the , im falling for her..

 

The problem is, except the fact that she is me girlfriend's bestfriend...

 

She is.... In a relationship.... And she loves him so much... :(

 

HUHUHU

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GGIOITrash
#1
Well first of all you're both in a committed relationship. Her being touchy may be is within her personality so don't misunderstand. And at least talk it out with your girlfriend. If you are not in love with her then I say better end it now before it worsens. Or if you still love your girlfriend then better find a way to make it work. Relationships are never easy to maintain but if you both want to make it work then it will work. Maybe the affection the bestfriend is giving you just fills the gap that you want your girlfriend to provide. It's still up to you though! Fighting! Hope you make the right decision and I hope this ends well!
vivian2170
#2
Well for one, i think you should focus on the problem you have with your girlfriend. You say she isnt sweet and doesnt care, maybe the caring nature of her bestfriend is filling the gap that you yern from your partner. So sit back and think carefully, is the spark in your relationship fading? Is it affection that you want?Or do you have genuine feelings for your girlfriend's bestfriend? Either way, you may have to speak to your girlfriend about the lack of affection you're getting from her before you make a proper decision.
PS: feel free to talk to me, i dont mind talling to people about their problems :)
_pinocchio_ #3
I had the same problem, I courted a girl, I liked her but when we started dating I met her bestfriend... I broke up with my gf and started to grow closer to her bestfriend like hanging out together at lunchbreak, hanging out after school and all, then I started to see her more like a friend and then another issue started... At summercamp I was inlove with one of my bestfriends friends... She helped me courting her but then it turned out that her friend didnt like me and that she (my bestfriend) was inlove with me... Why is love/life so ing complicated?
Soona3
#4
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iya_007
#5
Hey Lil Bro :D

Congrats with ur relationship......be careful with a girl's heart.....u shouldn't date her if ur not sure of ur own feelings...u might hurt both of them and ends up getting hurt too....trust me i know how it feels
Mnetruinedmylife
#6
I've faced the issue of not actually being 100% committed to the relationship that I was in before as well, and if there's one thing that I've learned, it's you've got to decide. Will you end up liking this person more if you stay with them? Will you be happy with them as they are now? If the answer is no on either, then you've got to break it off quickly before the other person gets more attached, it's not fair to them and it's not really fair to you either.

The issue of her best friend is a different matter altogether, and I suppose you should deal with that in your own way, but first thing's first-- the person that you're with right now.
spookytaeng #7
I think you should ask your heart, if you feel your current gf don't make you happy, try to talk with her about relationship beetween you two.. Try to understand her feeling and talk to her about what you want from that relarionship.. Talk to her quickly before you make her or your heart hurt.. If you guys need to break up, do it.. You should fix your problem with your current gf first..