You know guys, I don't post blog posts, but I just can't help myself this time.

I came across some comments of people who left the fandoms and I just can't help myself but pull my hair out in rage.

[+196, -6] I had originally left the EXO fandom only to recently return but I've just now left again ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ I was Byun Baekhyun's fan but I guess I'll switch to Kim Jongdae ㅎㅎㅎㅎ Anyway, find strength Kim Junmyeon.

[+129, -7] Taeyeon and Baekhyun, I'm also thankful to you two for giving me a reason to leave the fandom

[+122, -4] Thanks Taeyeon~ I now have more time to study for my exams ^^

Now let me get one thing straight - I am NOT and EXO fan, just a regular listener who likes their music and has a weakness for Chen Chen. But I feel so ing bad for them!!!  Just as much as I feel bad for Taeyeon.

And this doesn't apply to them only, but basically to ever other relationship that went public. It's just I've never seen such a bad reaction to a relationship before, so I am flipping tables.

I mean... Dear drop-outs, WHY were you in that ing fandom in the first place?

I don't understand. The idols dating doesn't change basically anything. Their music is still the same, their talents are still the same, their personality is still the ing same. And these three points should be the main reasons WHY we are actually their fans.

We surely shouldn't be fans because we want them to live in celibacy, hoping one day they will notice us after a concert, invite us backstage and miraculously fall in love with us. NO. That's not the reason why you should be in the fandom in the first place.

The real reason is SUPPORTING them, RESPECTING them, LIKING/LOVING them and what they actually do FOR (or in front of) PUBLIC = US. Not in their personal lives, that's pretty much none of our business, as long as what they do is perfectly legal and last time I checked, loving and dating was.

I wonder if those so called "fans" who left ever truly respected their idols and their choices, their lives.

I also can't stand the comments saying "XY ship has sunk."

Are you serious????

I get it, I get it, shipping is serious business, I myself ship TaeNy DAMN HARD, but is really X years and counting of amazing friendship absolutely nothing to you?? (I'll just go with TaeNy, because they are my OTP, but you can apply this to any other couple.) Taeyeon and Tiffany still love each other deeply, possibly even more than they love their boyfriends. I know some people real life who would actually give up on their relationship just to save their friendship with best friend. But I also know it would hurt them deeply, so DON'T YOU ING DARE TO MAKE THEM CHOOSE between two people they love.

Don't you care if they are happy? Would you be happy if your OTP was really romantically involved, but they would be unhappy in that relationship? I certainly wouldn't. Yes, I do care about my OTP, of course I do, but in the end of the day, their happiness is always the only thing that matters. As long as it's legal.

So... Just let them be happy and don't forget shipping isn't just about writing s, it's also about admiring the great friendship between group members and living in a dream they might date sometime or that they secretly experiment at dorm, but let's stay real - the probability is not very high.

Sorry for the occasional caps lock.

*still raging*

TaeNy is real.

ChanBaek is real.

Peace.