Help me.

Hello.... I hope you guys can help me. I'm an inexperienced person at this..

so, there's this guy in my school. He looks like Luhan(100%- hahah MINI LUHAN) , and I'm not sure why I like him. I am totally not sure why I like him. But I am sure that I like him not because he's cute or anything, personality is what I Iook for. He's a complete stranger, because he just came to my school this year. I don't know anything about him, except his name and what class he's in, and where he lives(lol).  He's not in the same grade as me, and of course it'll be hard for me to talk to him. I told my best friend that I like him, and of course she asked me why. This is what I answered; "I'm not sure why I like him, because he's a stranger! From what I can see is that he looks nice, especially to them people around him. He looks like a caring guy, and he looks like a fun person to talk to!"

I'm a very shy person, and this is my first time liking someone..(not really, cuz I love my biases. Hahah) I mean, liking someone in person. I don't know how to talk to him. This is my first time liking someone. I usually focus on my studies..but idk why! He popped out of nowhere in my life hahahah' .

I know that we have a few things in common, because my best friend told me some facts about him. 

So please help me....

oh yea! I know that he doesn't have Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc. He has gmail(I know the email address) but if I message him, what if he's like "who are u? N how do u know my email address? Ur a stranger! I will block you *block*" hahah xD so what should I do? Omg! 

*** our moments hahah xD JKJK 

I caught him looking at me so many times, and I don't know the reason why..(of course) 

We played basketball like last two weeks. I mean, my team had to play with his team. He was blocking me for the whole game ._. Believe it or not! Hahah. My best friend was like " you should've poked him and be like 'yo! Nice shoe" hahah xD 

Sometimes he ate lunch like behind me, as in like sitting back to back. Hahah xD oh yea, one day I was like talking to my friends..and it looked like he wanted to say something to me. He was like hesitating...I heard him asking his best friend, "dude. Should I go for it? Should I?"  Of course, I was blushing! Hahah, he wasn't that far..like 4 steps away from me only. I told my sister about this, and she was like "Why didn't you say something? Should've said hello. C'mon!" (Telling you guys the truth, my sister is not good at this too even though she's turning 18 this year! *whispers* gotta be careful if you talk to her. She's a super duper cold person, especially to guys) 

Oh yeah, my best friend was in his team for Quiz Bowl...so like I asked her about the questions that were asked, and what a coincidence..we answered the same question! Hahah xD 

 

and.....bye! Have a nice day~ :> xoxo! * peace* 

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shinee3112 #1
How could you not tell your 어니 anything?! And when people say relax and try talking to him. Half the time it doesn't work cause you're still nervous. Well it'll work later on when you like actually feel comfortable. But it still works if you're like me and like ask stupid random questions. If he doesn't tolerate your randomness, then that means he isn't worth it. Yeah I know this didn't help at all, LOLOL. K Byee.
MusicLover7901 #2
Ooh you're lucky. There are hardly any cute guys in my school. And the ones that are cute aren't even in my grade. My advice to you is to try talking to him. Just relax a little cuz you seem a little nervous but excited as well. Plus you don't want to give away that you like him before you confess (if you plan to). Try and be his friend. I'm not saying be super close or anything just be nice to him and say hi when you see him and smile. Don't overdo it at first. Then when you feel confident enough, try talking to him and getting to know him. Ask him stuff about his life, ambitions, ect. Not too much though. Otherwise he might think you're a little weird. Try and get friend in the same friend group as him. That makes it easier to hang out. Get your friends and his friends to hang out more. That's a start.

Good luck! I wish I had a mini Luhan... What a beautiful person...
Kpopperlover
#3
Just be yourself and be friendly! When "the right time comes" just start talking to him like a normal conversation like "hey" or something and start being friends so you can decipher if you like him not only for looks and a few things about him but for his actual personality. At first don't ask tons of questions cuz then that would be a bit awkward just say hey and start a conversation and then tell him your name and such. Wait a few months before you ask him out and if he asks you out in that time span then go for it! I hope this helps ;)
aizahongtoseomin
#4
Hahaha.. that's so cute!
Well I don't have any experience with guys at all..
So just be yourself anf try to be friends with him when you have the opportunity