My Thoughts and Feelings About Taeyeon and Baekhyun Dating

At this rate, I’m sure all SONEs and EXOTICs are shocked by this news: Baekkie dating Taengoo? Whut?!; I know, I’ve been there too. I mean, Baek is my bias in the whole friggin EXO, and Taeng is my second bias in the whole friggin SNSD, and now they’re dating? DATING? Kill me now, please.

But being an SMTown fan, I’ve experienced the shock from Yoona, Sooyoung, Hyoyeon (who has broke up) and Tiffany’s dating news, so I’m practically prepared for this (other than the fact that I smell other SNSD dating revelation in the near future *wiggles eyebrows*). Sure, it was shock and tremendous hurt right after I read the news and confirmed that it was true and not made up, and it just hurts more the more you think of it, but now? I don’t think I mind that anymore (even though I’m still not happy about the fact that this is a noona-dongsaeng relationship which I really REALLY hate among all other types of heterogenic relationships) .

But like Mother Teresa said: “if you love until it hurts, there can me no more hurt, only more love”. And I’ve experienced that. I love both Baek and Taeng until it hurts seeing them together, and now there’s no more hurt in me, only more feeling of being happy for them the more I think about it. and I think you other fans should try it too. Don’t avoid it (please appreciate poor Taeng’s apology), because it’ll hurt you more than you’ll ever know, and just accept the fact that the both of them are happy like this. I’m not saying this because I was a BaekYeon shipper, no. heck, I’ve never even heard of this couple before and I didn’t even realize the existence of this fandom (I’m more of a TaeTeuk shipper if I should say so myself), but I love both Baek and Taeng, and I want them to be happy.

So if you claim you truly love at least either of them, please accept the fact that this is their choice and that they’re happy with it. please be happy for them, even when you’re not. It’s their life anyway, right? I myself wouldn’t like it if anyone wanted to separate me with the guy I love only to pair me with somebody I don’t even like. And I think it would go the same with BaekYeon. I mean, they’re at the age where they should be enjoying time with their GF/BF, and not only overworking themselves like hell only to entertain you guys (especially knowing how harsh SM is to their artists). Let me remind you: HUMANS BELONG TO GOD AND NOT TO OTHER HUMAN! So practically, what I’m trying to say is that neither Baekhyun or Taeyeon has ever belonged to any of you! They. Are. Not. Yours. So cut it out, okay?

Lastly, I just want to say something to all of you who are planning to leave SONE or EXOTIC or other fandoms shipping Taeng or Baek with somebody else: I feel you. I’m an Adorkable, a TaeTeuk shipper (even though I’m not exactly a SONE or an ELF, just pureblood SuGen shipper #littleproudme), and I’ve taken the vow to always respect what the both of them chose. And now Taeng chose to date Baek, I have to be cool and accept it, right? I’ve vowed it anyway. So if you are one of those who planned to leave some fandom just because BaekYeon was real and you didn’t want it, then I suggest you GET THE HELL OUT RIGHT NOW AND DON’T EVEN HESITATE! Because this shows that you are NOT a true fan/shipper. Because at this rate, only a TRUE fan/shipper can be strong enough and endure the trials and tribulations. Even though no, I’m not saying you should lose faith on your OTPs, but I was only suggesting you all to accept their choice wholeheartedly, and pray for the best for them. after all, we’re their fans, who are supposed to be there to support them, no? what I’m trying to say here is, both Taeng and Baek have suffered enough, so don’t you dare add anymore sufferings to their backs to carry or I’ll chop you into tiny pieces of vapor in the northern wind!

Okay, that is all, thank you and have a nice day! ^_^

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taecsica
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i hope you feel better after writing this