EXO issues

Okay initially I wasn't going to write or say anything concerning EXO since I, we, all know that they have a lot going on

 

But now I'm just pissed off

 

The whole BaekYeon thing put me off like whoa

 

I knew Baekhyun's ideal was Taeyeon

 

That's as far I know about him and his interest in girls

 

Even though my poor little BaekYeol heart broke a bit

 

It might sound stupid but I still am going to ship them

 

Not because I'm some crazy shipper or anything; I just merely like the ship

 

But that doesn't mean I hate BaekYeon or anything

 

I support them cause honestly if they're happy, I'm fine

 

But I can't deny that I'm, like the rest of the fandom, is a bit upset

 

What I don't understand is how or why such a relationship should be known to everyone, knowing that EXO still has some Kris issues

 

Like excuse me, but seriously

 

Are you not aware of much load you're putting on EXO? The fans? Both Exotics and Sones? As well as everyone who can be affected by this?

 

I was sensitive when it when came to Yifan's situation

 

But I don't understand how or why this had to be known now

 

Like I'm sorry and all

 

I know that like most relationships, BaekYeon was meant to be a secret or whatever

 

But it was really, really careless

 

Whether BaekYeon was a set-up or whatever, I really don't care to be honest

 

The couple are getting both positive and negative feedbacks but honestly I'll stay neutral

 

But than

 

I had to come across some news that Baekhyun was hurting Sehun

 

Some of you may be aware he's probably my bias in EXO

 

And I don't know if it's true or not

 

But thank God Allkpop didn't post it otherwise I'd go ape-

 

Cause seriously? It's getting annoying

 

Of course I was upset that someone who I admired got hurt, and by his own member nevertheless

 

And so far I just found one picture and gif supporting that Baekhyun did hurt him

 

But other than that, I can't find anything else

 

I feel bad that Baekhyun's getting the hot water this month

 

But I feel worse knowing that people are actually causing the hot water to boil

 

As a fan or anti, be aware that they are human and actually understand what they're going through

 

Is empathy that hard to consider?

 

Cause even if you're -hurt or upset, remember that Baekhyun, Yifan, EXO were the same people who actually made you happy at one point

 

Whether it be winning an award, EXO Showtime etc.

 

I mean even Luhan and probably the rest of EXO are getting it rough too

 

Cause what we, fans, do to them, what we show through our blogs, post etc. just reflects on how 'one' we really are

 

Cause let's face it; we alll know that not everything's rainbow and butterflies in SM or in the whole KPOP industry

 

Cause yes we do get tension between members [Yifan and EXO; Baekhyun and Sehun etc.] and possibly between fan

 

But guess what they're the ones getting it rough

 

They're the ones who are having it hard

 

They're the ones who are enduring the most pain

 

Because yes, it really hurts looking at someone you admire and than realising they weren't that great

 

But it hurts more when you realise that the same person you'd admire is suffering – and you're not really helping

 

Sorry for ranting and all, but I'm serious

 

This whole thing needs to stop

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-adorateur-
#1
A++++++ preach!
P.S. there was a more hd fancam at another angle at the performance where baek supposedly hit sehun and at the other angle apparently you can see that baek didn't hurt him
ZeroPrincesses
#2
In agree with you, like every single thing you stated, is so true. I'm not going to say anymore but let's just hope things start to get better soon, cos one things for sure, 2014, started of so well, to hit a wall. I just hope we as a fandom and EXO as humans, with feelings, can get back up again. p.s I'm crying after reading your blog... it's heartfelt. .-.

I'm not going to jump to conclusions, as you said, Baek was one of my UB, and as a huge BAEKYEOL shipper, I'm not willing to let go either. Because as long as I live, I know Yeol as will the other members, will always be there whether it be for Baek or Kris.

Especially with the whole neck-grabbing incident with Sehun, let's not judge without evidence....