My Thoughts on Wufan vs SM Issue

TLDR I guess.

I don't even know where to start. Like everyone else, I am extremely in shock about the news that Kris is filing a lawsuit. I'm not sure if this is entirely true, but I feel like I have to tell what I'm feeling. I don't usually voice out my opinions on issues like this, but this affected me too much that I can't even write a decent sentence for my update.

Number one, Kris. I don't know Kris personally. He's not even my bias to begin with, but to be fair, Kris is okay. He is talented. And all I can say is that like every human being, he doesn't deserve to be judged. People say that he's being whiny and inconsiderate of his fans, but others say that he is man enough to fight for his civil rights. For me, whatever Kris is doing right now, I'm pretty sure he has a reason for filing a lawsuit, and as a mere  fangirl and netizen, I think I have no right to support nor oppose him. My point is that, he has reasons for doing so. I respect him.

 

Number two, SM. Ah SM. Many of you might disagree with what I'll say, but let's not jump into conclusions. Sure, they let go of Hangeng, JYJ, and all that, but the question is, have we placed ourselves in SM's shoes? Again, I have been following SM artists for the last 5 years, but it doesn't mean that I'm crazy about the entertainment company and its staff. What if SM tried their best to cater to Wu Fan's needs, but their efforts weren't enough? What if SM is doing everything they can to hold on to Kris? Okay, they have been labeled as the merciless label that doesn't treat their talents well, but there are two sides to every coin.

 

And number three, EXO. They have been posting cryptic posts on weibo/instagram. Suho has called Kris irresponsible. There are so many things going on. Let's not make assumptions that EXO is fighting/ everyone's unfollowing Kris because they think Kris is being unreasonable. People, let's stop. 

There is no need to judge, people. There is no need to spread rumors and cling to sides because nobody among us knows the whole truth. What we do is keep an open mind. There is no need for false information because it will not affect anything. 

Respect for the parties is what we need.

Personally, I want them to reconcile. My boyfriend even said that SM shouldn't let go of someone like Kris, and that Kris should stay because the fans love him. I can't disagree nor agree, but I want them to reconcile.

More importantly, I hope that things fated to happen will happen.

 

There is a reason for everything :)

 

 

P.S. I know some of you might hate me for this, for not taking sides on the issue, but then again, I'd respect that each of us have different views :)

 

 

 

 

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SehunFangirl #1
I just recently became an EXOtic and first got into EXO through showtime. At that point I realized Kris was filing a lawsuit against SM, but really wasn't that concerned because, like I said, I am new and didn't really know any of them that well. But, as I started to see Kris' personality more, I kinda fell in love. Throughout all this I had the mindset that Kris was still in the band, but it finally hit me after seeing Tao and Lay cry during Happy Camp that Kris was, in fact, gone. I'm finding it kinda hard to stay neutral because I feel I can't support him with his choice. I really wish he'd comeback. Basically I'm just kinda pissed at him. Call me selfish,but I guess I can't let him go yet.
Msgirlcharli
#2
You have the same opinions as me. This is what we need most right now. Understanding and respect. Without this, it means nothing at all. Especially right now because of Baekhyun's scandal. It's another issue that tackles human rights & personal choice. Kris wants to be happy, Baekhyun wants to be happy too. Everybody needs happiness, what's the meaning of fame and money if we are not even happy just a bit. Atleast I found another reasonable fan that see this picture like me. Thanks
ByungHannie
#3
When I first open this, I thought that I'm gonna have another heartbreak due to blind judge from people. But as I slowly went through this blog, I was more than glad to know that at least someone is open minded. Thanks for not judging although Kris is more likely not coming back, authornim :)
fanqin
#4
wow. it takes a lot to not choose sides and stay strong on the neutral side. I, as Kris is my bias, I will support him as best I could, but I couldn't say I am absolutely okay and fine with his decision. it hurts. so much. I've been crying for nights for someone I don't even know personally, and seeing fans who used to admire him for his humors and appearance talk about him really.. stab me so, so deep. All the comments, the hates, the bash we-kris's fans-got are really no joke.

I am not someone to blindly choosing a side and then hating on the other side. I know what he did is wrong for exo, for fans, but I can't say what he did is wrong for himself...

anyway, some of the reasons that make me so sad.. is the fact that the other 11 already moved on so fast, already 'abandoned' him even though the official statement hasn't came out yet... and the fact that exo, the 11 of them will never meet kris again...
Exoandvixx123786 #5
IKR I FEELLL SOOOOOOO SADDDD I DID DISCUSS IT BUT ON MY STORY BUT YYYYYYYY DOES IT HAVE 2 HAPPEN I LUV KRIS 2 DEATH NOT EVEN FUNNY I HATE SM FOR DIS
Yoon_HyeSung
#6
i know how you feel author-nim ! totally agree ~! we cant make such a deicision for any side .... i also dunno what actually happened ... anyway , i respect what kris's will do .. :)
SofiaJessica #7
so sad.... OMG why?
syafiqahsyahirah #8
I agree author-nim ^^
sehunsangel
#9
VERY WELL SAID! :bd
ambercookiebee
#10
Everyone I personally know is neutral, so I feel like if I knew you personally we would be awesome friends.

People outside of the K-pop industry are always worrying about things they can't control. Why spend your time and energy worrying about something that you can't fix? I mean, if they think that twitter is gonna help Kris stay, then good for them, but twitter was supporting Kris before this issue happened, and this lawsuit is still going on.

Fans can't stop a lawsuit, only the parties involved.
veronggg
#11
Very well said authornim! ^^
Siwonsehunoppa #12
tbh, I think exo member should just stay quiet about what they feel. they receive more hate because of that since they always said 'we are one' but when one person have a problem and don't tell them, they just turn their back at him. but yeah, I can relate to the other members action, since they work hard for their position right now, and then all of the sudden this happen. but don't you think it's better if they're just stay quiet though?
I'm not taking kris's, exo's, fans's or even sm's side. I'm just going to wish for the best thing to happen. all I know is I can't trust any of them right now.. and whatever happens, happens so better be prepared to accept it.

just realize my comment is so unfriendly-_- but whatever, I need to let this go. sorry for trashing your comment space though..
namfan
#13
Lol ate jo. I was about to write something like this. But I remembered I'll be too brutal and too hard.. And it won't sound friendly.