Friends on AFF does not equal friends in real life
I don't know if I am the only who received messages like this but they something like "Let's be friends! Please accept my friend-request" and something along that line.
First of all - and this is more personal now - I don't accept friend-requests and if I do, it is my personal choice.
Secondly, sometimes I get the feeling that people here think that being friends here on AFF equals being friends in real life.
I does not, guys.
Sure, having "friends" here on AFF helps out and they listen to you when you have problems but in the end they are not your real friends.
Some of your so-called friends here, you probably never have seen before and you call them friend.
There is a reason why I am so hesistant about this whole friend thing here on AFF and on the internet in general because most of those friendships are not real friendships to me.
From all my AFF "friends" I only count three people as real friends, because we met before in real life and talked in real life as well.
I know it is not easy to make friends in real life for various reasons but internet friends don't replace real life friends (I repeat myself, I know).
So please, if you write someone "I want to be your friend", think twice about it first. Sure, there are many people who are like "Oh, no problem, let's be friends" but there are also people like me who think "No, you are not my friend and you probably never will be." (Sorry, not sorry. This is the truth.)
I make a clear line between my real friends and the "AFF friends" because once gone from this side, I probably won't be in contact with the most anyways.
(sorry if this all a bit confusing. I am hella tired and just came back from work >.>)
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