Seriously... I don't even know how to react to L talking about his dating scandal. Many Inspirits are saying things like 'Look! He ended it for us! Saranghae~" or "Tell us the truth next time oppa! >"<". I don't mean to offend any Inspirits but I feel the need to say this.

His relationship is over. And? It was basically happening in secret, due to fear of being discovered by fans, like it was a crime or some sort. He is a young adult. He deserves some love. It can't be helped that he falls in love with someone else. What are the chances of him ended up dating us anyways? It’s fine to dream but don’t take that dream too far. It's natural for him to be in love, yet his supporters are against it. They either retreat to the corner and get all depress over it by themselves while pretending to support it or simply bash the girlfriend and chase after her till her death or even worse, left the fandom :|

If an idol isn't allowed to fall in love with someone else, let me ask you all, how can he dare tell the truth? He fears that the scandal will affect not just him but also the entire Infinite's image. Not to mention he is the visual and there are his fans expecting perfection from him, when in reality he is just a boy like any other non-celebrity boys. Under those circumstances, if you were him, would you dare tell the media that "I'm currently dating XXX"? Sure, there are some exceptions, but exceptions don't always happen. Some may accept the relationship, but I know, and he knows, that majority of his fans will be against it. Only that they reacted differently. Some lucky celebrities will gain more supporters than haters like Yoona and Seungi maybe? I don’t know but dating is a taboo in Korea entertainment industry, especially idols.

So instead of saying that “Woa, he is so brave, finally admitting the truth by himself.” or “He ended the relationship for us! YAY!” or  “You better tell us the truth next time okay!?”, I think we better apologize to him. Sorry for preventing him from having a happy relationship. Sorry for pressuring him into confessing about the dating scandal like it was a crime. Sorry for not allowing him to love like any other boys. And finally, sorry for not being a good fan.

Hey, hey, I’m just telling the truth. I know you all love him a lot too. I’m just saying that perhaps it’s time to change the attitude as a fan and set ourselves a boundary. Know our limit and don’t try to cross it. I apologize if any of you is offended by this post of mine, but this is my honest feelings towards the issue.