Coming Out

I suggest reading this so you can understand what I'm on about.

So, guys, I have thought about it, and have officially chosen to identify a bi-curious. Some of you don't know what that is, so I'll explain.

Bi-curious means that you can have feelings for the gender which you usually don't prefer. Like, I sometimes have feelings for girls (yes, a slight crush).

I've come out to two friends, one of them is RandomGirl101. Both of them accept me, and that's great.

But, I'm not sure if I should to this really good friend of mine, who's like, a homophobe. And I'm scared to lose people.

I wanna come out on Instagram, should I? I wanna come out to everyone, since I have accepted myself and am proud of my bi-curiousity. I feel like I don't need to hide it anymore, and I'm so tired of hiding it!

But, still, I'm scared to lose my friends. I know, I don't need those people if they won't accept me and stuff. But, they're still my friends, so I'm still worried.

So, my question: Should I come out publicly like that? And btw, my account's private.

 

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IcyWish #1
I think maybe you can come out by telling most of your friends, and then Instagram, since it seems a lot tougher to do so with your friends.
If they're good friends of yours, they'll accept you. I mean, look at it this way : You realised this before, but didn't tell anyone. At the time, your friends were still friends with you. Only now are you going to tell them, so it's like you haven't changed at all, so they probably won't freak out... but maybe besides that homophobe friend of yours.
You're really brave, so if you think you can do it, do it.
America's cheering you on!!! ☆★☆★☆★☆
ihavenofriends2920 #2
Your question should be answered yourself,
do you feel comfortable about? If not then don't do it
If your have the courage to do it then do it
We aren't stopping you
What ever make you feel easy is your answer
and remember that you have a life time to post it
so don't rush yourself if you don't want to, you can do it when you feel the need to ok ;)
Whimsical_Princess #3
You should come out if you feel like it
I accept you just the way you are all my friends or different some of my friends are also bi-curious that doesn't stop me from hanging out with them.
But still I find it real brave that you dare come out my BFF was actually scared of my reaction she thought that I would avoid her and treat her different but I accepted her and I was glad to be the first person she told her secret to so don't worry to much about it their are always gonna be people who judge you but don't let them make bring you down smile and show them that you're not afraid to be your true self !!!!! ^^
If you need someone to talk to you can always talk to me ^^ !!!
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