Anybody got any advice?

So this seems really shallow and cliche and all around just so typically teenager-ish, but I need somewhere to talk about it cuz it's just eating me up inside.

There's this guy. He goes to my school and has amazing hair, is so freaking adorable I can't stand it, very beautiful and y and really athletic. Plus he cooks and plays piano. All around sounds like the perfect guy right?

Ohmygod he is so very perfect.

But I'm friends with him. Like, really close friends and I don't wanna screw anything up cuz he's such a nice guy.

 

Anyway, at my school there's this Sadie Hawkins dance coming up (where the girl asks the guy) and originally I was just gonna go with my friend Elyse, but when I heard about the whole girl-ask-guy thing I thought maybe I should. The problem is I've never asked a guy out or to a dance or anything before and I've never been rejected. And I really like this guy, so if I were to get rejected by him it would really ruin our friendship cuz I'd be too embarrassed to ever face him again.

Elyse suggested that I ask to just go together as friends if neither of us have dates and maybe something will happen at the dance. I thought that was a good idea.

Also there may or may not be a girl who likes him too but she is sooo not the kind of guy he would date, but I don't know!!!

What do you think? Should I ask him to the dance?

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BringingLexiBack
#1
Honestly, what's the worse that's gonna happen? He says no, it won't be the end of the world, and if he says yes, then you're the happiest girl on the planet. And if you don't ask him, then he might as well have said no. So my point is, ask him, because if you don't then you'll never know what he would have said.
UnicornGhost #2
ASK HIM
this is an opportunity don't waste it
seize the opportunity
DGNA_Forever
#3
I would ask him=). You obviously really like him, and this may be your chance=D.
ToppDoggFan13 #4
I had a similar experience a couple of years ago with a guy who I'd been friends with since Gr 9 and liked (he liked me too) but neither of us really did anything about it until he asked me out near the end of Gr 11. It ended up being really awkward and we broke up within a week because it was so weird and our friendship was never the same after that. So I'd say ask him as a friend to the dance if he doesn't have a date and see where it goes from there. ^-^
AptonKey #5
As a friend it's a good idea.