I can't handle boys...

BOYS ARE JUST KJJNBJVWKLBVWJBLWV.

So there's this senior in my art class who I have never met before in my entire life and all of a sudden he starts talking to me and asking questions to like get to know me and stuff and normally guys don't do that to me unless they want to play a prank on me or like...they like me...  But I don't like it cause I am assuming he likes me since he seems very nice and I don't want to develop feelings for him if he just wants to be friends.  But, the girl who sits next to me also thinks he likes me because like it seems a little obvious...  But again I don't want to completely assume.  

He's pretty cute and nice...  Not too tall to make me feel short as well, seems like she also has decent grades as well  from the short conversations that I've had with him.

It's awkward too, like really.  Here are some experiences... The first time I talked to him was when we were doing this shoe project and I brought in like all of my shoes so I could draw them and I remember him  coming up to me and asking for one of my shoes to draw and I gave him one.  

The second time we talked was when we introduced ourselves.  It was after class and in art class there are all these mirrors around the class so we can look at our work to develop our art eyes and to see what we need to made our art better and stronger.  So I went into this room by the door to look at my work in the mirror.  After looking at it I was exiting the small room and he was heading for the door so we bumped into one another and he complimented on my work and said something like "I was wondering when you were going to finish it" sort of implying that he was interested in my work and was waiting for me to finish and he introduced himself and so did I before he left.  

Then ever since then I've noticed things.  Like we have cubbies in art to keep our art work in, since we can't take it home, and his cubby is right on top of mine and we ALWAYS bump into each other because of it.  

And one class we were in the computer lab doing a research paper on a famous artist, and there was something wrong with his computer so coincidentally he was moved next to me and we chatted.  What was sweet though was that we were sitting on the row that the AC blows on the most (so its the coldest) and me and my friend were freezing, but he was nice enough to block the AC for me and my friend (the same girl who sits next to me in class and witnesses everything between me and him).  

Then one day he asked me and like only me, which is weird since he has so many friends in art class who are better than me, to draw something for him and he asked what grade I was in and how old I was and stuff like that, and my friend was giggling at me cause she could tell I was flustered by him.

Also since it's always me and him after class we talk from time to time.  And my teacher somehow always gets me involved with him like "Oh Aly, can you give this to R," let's just call the guy R, or "Aly can you help R" or "Can you get R his work?"  and it's like jbvlwihbguibnvslfbjksdnbskjfdbds.  

Also sometimes he talk to his friends, that are coincidentally seated around me, and he'll just come up to me and see what I am doing or chat for a little for no reason.  Like yesterday he was passing by me, but all of a sudden when he passed me (from what I saw from the corner of my eye) he like stopped just  as he was passing me and backtracked to me and looked at what I was doing.  

Then after art class and it's just me and him, I know that our next class we have it in the same building since I always see him before and after that period at that building, so I sort of want to ask if he wants to walk with each other since we are heading in the same direction and stuff, but I choke ever time and again...I don't know if he likes me or not ><  Should I ask him one day?

Lol maybe I am just delusional?  Do you think he likes me?

Also do you have any advice because I am really in need of some OTL lol~ please 3:

Some side notes as well, I also sort of have feelings for this other guy who is in the same grade as me and we're friends but he's a little snobby and I haven't been seeing him around lately...  Also I was going to ask him to Winter Ball as a friend since we don't really know a lot about each other and yet we are friends.  Lol but I told one of my close friends about R and she told me I should've asked R to Winter Ball since I heard the other guy (Let's call him K) since K didn't want to go and he had obligations to the school.  But one morning when I was talking to K it seemed like he was going to ask me even though he couldn't go.  Also! I don't want to like R because he is a senior and I am a junior.  Why is it I am like this?  It's because the school year is like halfway over and he's going off the college soon and I don't want to be like "I LIKE YOU BUT YOU HAVE TO GO"  you know?  

So please...ADVICE AND THANK YOU FOR READING ABOUT MY BOY PROBLEMS. c:  xD  Lol this is why I like K-pop idols Lol they don't need to make me wonder or worry about anything because they don't know me Lol /sad life /cries ; - ;

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BigBang_VIP #1
I actually read that whole thing.

I think he really does like you! Maybe after your art class, instead of straight up asking "can I walk with you", you can ask "where are you going to next?" and once he mentions that building, just reply with "oh I'm going that way too!" and start walking with him. It'll be less creepy and if you're a shy girl, then it's a better alternative than asking straight up.

I like seaspring's advice on how to just follow your dreams. I liked a few guys in the 2 decades that I've lived and once I thought I liked some but those crushes soon faded. Age isn't too important as long as it's within a reasonable age range. A junior with a senior isn't bad.

Ask him to winter formal and see what happens. Whatever happens, happens. While at the winter ball, get to know him like what college he's going to. Maybe he's going to a nearby university and staying in town. Happens a lot these days since tuition is rising. -_-

I wish the guy I liked was that straight forward. He's so blunt and straightforward when it comes to everything else but when it comes to girls, he's just kind of shy. :P

Ask him to the Winter Ball! :) And just be yourself and get to know him.

Good luck! [Or make another blog post and tell us what happens lol]
gotaemin
#2
Omg I think R likes you a lot~