Well, the guy I gave my phone number in a bar that night during the freshers week at university (Link to the blog post here!).

Here's a short recap if you don't remember or don't feel like reading the whole blog post (because it is indeed a bit long):

I fancied this guy in the introduction week, but kept missing chances to talk to him. Eventually I saw him in a bar when I had to leave with my group on the the second last day of the week and ran up to him and gave him my phone number and name on a piece of paper. After that I had to leave.

Well so it turns out this this amazing, stunning, beautiful, tall, broad shouldered asian guy: He has lectures in the same university building as I do. Not only that, every monday morning we have lectures in the halls next to each other. So whenever I leave my lecture hall, grumpy and groggy with my starbucks coffee still in my hand, he leaves his as well. We almost always cross paths - but I try not to look at him and he does not look at me.

And gosh, he is still so pretty guys - ugh. I cannot take how damned gorgeous he is.

But here's the brand new information! It turns out he is befriended with some of my friends who do Chinese language and Culture at the university and they went to a party together. So, yes, after having almost gone to the final party with at the freshers week, I found him in my facebook feed, tagged in one of the photos of my friends. 

And wow, what did I find out there on his page.

He has a girlfriend. My first thought was that I had missed my chance with him. 

But then I took a closer look at the relationship status. He had been in a relationship ship since 2011.

So yeah, why did he send me a text then? Maybe because he wanted to be friends or so? Or because he was drunk and just send my number a text with my name?

Well... uhm, here's some new information about his 'text', something I may have left out on the previous blog post about this guy : The text he send me wasn't as much "xxx A." as it was  "E. my lovely y beast! xxx A.". and after I asked him if he went to the final party the day after he send me "What time shall we meet up xxx"

Yes, so that was a bit of a shock. To see that he had been in a relationship back then.

Maybe it was just a joke? Sending me that text. I mean, I get why someone could find it funny to send someone such a text. But if you were in a happy and long relationship with your girlfriend, you absolutely would not send such a text to a random girl you met in a bar.

And I'm not really sure what my appropriate reaction to this must be? Should I think "O what a horrible guy! He was in a relationship!" or something like that?

Because if so: I am not reacting the appropriate way.

Sigh. Guys what should I do?

Because he is still so extremely gorgeous and I really love to get to know him better.

But knowing that he is in a two year long relationship, I don't want to be the relationship-wrecker. ...Even though I might just have almost been that already...