Am I really wrong? (Help)
Am I really wrong?
So I have decided to share with all of you, to relieve my anxiety and stress. Okay, maybe not anxiety but just anger?
So there's this friend of mine. We basically do everything together. But she's the type of person that is... Idk how to describe. But its basically like when getting back exam results. Before, she'll be like "omg, gonna fail this test". But in the end, she aces it like hell. So we had a problem.
We were doing a project together. And I was in charge of the presentation slides. I sent it to her the first time after I did so she could edit some stuff and I was literally shocked because everything was changed. I mean the layout and everything -- except for the background and the some info. I had to redo everything again because the layout was custom made. I was -- I admit -- pretty pissed because I worked pretty hard on it. I tolerated because she is -- I'm not sure whether to put was or is -- my bestie so... Yeah. I kept quiet about it.
The second time was what caused it, I think. I was having a bad day. It was after school. She asked when I was sending the presentation slides to her. This is what I replied.
"Soon. Not as free as you think so please kindly be patient."
I was polite damn it. And you now what she said?
"Don't forget that whatever time you're gonna sleep, I'm gonna be sleeping more than 1 hr later. You take more than 1 hr to delete those slides, add a few things and rearrange the aesthetic beauty of the ppt? If its too gruelling, just give me wtv you've edited and I will do the rest."
I was really angry, so I spent the time raging and I didn't send her.
This what she sent 2 hours later after the first message.
" I trust that your edits are of good quality and will not have any detriments or dire consequences towards the presentation."
WHAT AM I FREAKING SUPPOSED TO SAY? THANK YOU FOR TRUSTING ME?
Maybe I seem a little petty to you guys, but it seems as if she thinks that she's cleverer than me, smarter than me. Just because she takes one more subject than me, she's supposed to be a lot busier? WHAT THE FCUK? Also, I didn't see these messages until like at about 1am (She sent the second one at 12 midnight) because I was charging my phone damn it.
I won't add in other issues which made me angry but lets just say this is not the first time she made me angry.
What's your take? Should I apologize?
(I have a friend who uses aff frequently. I'm sure she'll see this. She's been asking me to apologize to the person mentioned above. So I want to know someone else's opinion on this)
To the people who read through this crap, thank you.
To the people who even bothered to click on this, I owe you. You can pm me to give you some karma lol
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